One of my bridesmaids is a single mother with a child under the age of 5. She's upset with me because I'm not inviting him to the wedding. I'm not asking for much from my bridesmaids, but she will have to pose for pictures and walk down the aisle. I just don't see how she can do these things with him in tow. I'm not trying to exclude him, but there really won't be many kids there and the ones that will be are first cousins and a little older. I've heard of some people providing baby sitting services for their guests. We're on a limited budget, our wedding is near her house and between her parents and his father, someone is always around to watch him, but I'm wondering if I should consider something like this to avoid hurt feelings.