FI and I are trying to cut down our guest list a bit and I'm struggling. On my side, I have 161 guests and that's after cutting it down from the initial "fantasy" list that would include everyone. 111 are family, some I'm not that close to but I have a guilt complex about marking them off, and the rest are good friends (plus their dates/SO/spouses). How do you decide who to cut out?
Follow-up question: I have two second cousins (sisters), one whose family I've been close to and the other who I like, I just don't see or talk to that often (this family happens to have 5 kids). Is it okay to invite one cousin and not the other? Or include the children from one and not the other?