Bridal Party Jewelry

Re: Bridal Party Jewelry

• Knottie1454969449 member

  

  March 2016

  It think it's not such a serious detail...will your BM's wear jewelry or not...Moreover, if you don't wear it, why shouldn't they do it? But you can ask them to wear something neutral, if they want to wear jewelry in any case.

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• STARMOON44 member

  

  March 2016

  Yes. Just let them wear, or not wear, whatever jewelry they want. 

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• AddieCake member

  

  March 2016

  Why the hell would it matter if they wore jewelry just because you aren't? Do you think you might get upstaged by a necklace?

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• ernursej member

  

  March 2016

  I have items that I wear almost everyday. I would find it rude to be told not to wear something (same as having to wear matching items). It is not something that others will notice and when your wedding party is comfortable, they will be happier. Happier people make for better photographs.

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• SP29 member

  

  March 2016

  While you may have a high neck wedding dress, what are their dresses like? A simple necklace may compliment the neckline of their dress better.
  
  No, I would not ask them to not wear jewelry- that's micro-managing. No one is going to compare them to you. If they ask about it, you can request they wear their own simple jewelry.
  

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• climbingsingle member

  

  March 2016

  Yes, it's absolutely rude. And I can guarantee no one will be looking at what jewelry your BMs are wearing. 

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• JediElizabeth member

  

  March 2016

  I think it would be a bit off-putting, if not rude. I generally wear either earrings or a necklace (or both), particularly if I know I'll be in pictures, because they create the illusion of helping to define my jawline. I'd be really uncomfortable if I was asked not to wear earrings, even with a high-neckline BM dress where a necklace wouldn't be appropriate. 
  
  Unless the BMs are wearing dresses that match yours, and people won't be able to tell who the bride is, coordinating their jewelry (or lack thereof) to yours is even more unnecessary than coordinating their jewelry to each other.  (Which is, as we all know, highly unnecessary to begin with.)

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• Viczaesar member

  

  March 2016

  Rude.

  
  
  
  

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• glasgowtolondon member

  

  March 2016

  OP, what are your reasons for not wanting your BM's to wear no jewellery? I assume they are not wearing the same dress or shoes as you, probably not the same hair do.....so why do they have to match what you are doing for jewellery? I guess you are really lucky if this is your biggest concern. Don't mention jewellery at all, they'll figure it out themselves and no one will care either way.

               

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• Maggie0829 member

  

  March 2016

  Why does it matter if they wear jewelry and you don't?  Really, why does this matter at all?

  
  

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