I havent been able to ask my Fiance or MOH this, my mother in law was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer 3 years ago. We got engaged November 2016, in May 2016 we were told she was no longer responding to treatment. She was slowly doing worse and worse until last week. She is now receiving home hospice care, has stopped talking and eating, her nurse said she may be like this for a few days or weeks before she passes. Im not sure what I am supposed to do, my shower/ bachelorette party is the 23rd and I know my MOH planned overnight stays that are non refundable, and friends used vacation days to go. Is it wrong that I dont want to cancel? The past few months were supposed to be exciting for us but its been awful seeing her suffer like this. We didnt have an engagement party because she wasnt able to travel and I've already canceled our engagement photos which we were supposed to have the day after she stopped responding. I just want to be happy for a little, Please advise