Dear Prudence,
I moved into a new place this year and have developed a serious crush on my next-door neighbor (we are both guys: I am gay, and he is straight). Over the past few months we have become friends, and he often invites me to hang out, and we get along well. I have just about gotten past the blushing, tongue-tied stage of the crush but still have strong feelings that I know are unrequited. I don’t think that I could ever tell him how I really feel without risking our friendship, and I would never dream of making a move on him. The longer this goes on the more uncomfortable I feel. I enjoy our evenings together a lot and worry I am taking advantage somehow by accepting his invitations when he is clueless about how I really feel. Should I stop seeing him?