My fiancé and I are having a fairly small wedding due to budget constraints. We both have large families and many friends who unfortunately, won't be invited to our wedding. My maid of honor is throwing us a "couples shower" and my fiancé's aunt is hosting a bridal shower in my honor. Our dilemma is - do we invite those family members and friends who we want to help celebrate this time in our life, even though they will not be invited to the wedding?