Dear Prudence,
My roommate has multiple sexual partners and every night one of them stays at our house. It’s the same people each week, and I have met them all, so it’s not like strangers are sleeping over, but it’s starting to feel like I have an extra roommate with a different name every few days. This isn’t a typical “my roommate’s boyfriend sleeps over every night and should pay rent” scenario. How do I tell my roommate I am uncomfortable having someone stay over every night without sounding like I am judging her poly lifestyle? I don’t care at all that she dates multiple people, I just don’t want to have an extra roommate every single night.