So my fiance and I can't afford a professional photographer so we hired a newbie, which is cool with me, we're not paying anything for the engagement shoot so I'm trying to just be grateful. But the lady we hired is bringing her kids, was reluctant to shoot any later than 10 am even though I live 2 hours from the location she picked without our input. She's also asking me not to wear white and hasn't responded when I mentioned I had a White skirt specifically for the occasion. Im feeling kind of frustrated, am I expecting too much? Is this typical or should I say something to her?