Couple things...FIL have been very vocal about the disapproval of our wedding plans (not fancy enough). We are paying for wedding. They are constantly giving input. They also don't think our guest list is extensive enough (only included 1st aunts/uncles and cousins).
MIL wants to throw me a shower (which I know is nice) but I'm quiet and shy and really just want one shower (both sides and friends) planned by my sister and mother...I suppose they could work together. Perhaps I'm extra frustrated by her lack of respecting our wishes. To me showers are about coming together as one family. MIL not happy about only having one shower. I'm partially worried that if she plans it people who are not invited to wedding will get invited to the shower (which I know is not appropriate). Am I being a bridezilla?