I have a bridesmaid who is in college and does a lot of traveling and is always very busy. About 3 months ago me and the bridesmaids went and picked out their bridesmaids dresses but she didn't go. The dress is $100 and the wedding is about 4 months away now and she still has not purchased the dress. I know she works part time so I would have thought she would have saved up for it by now. She also is ignoring any of the other bridesmaids messages pertaining to the wedding and hasn't gone to any of our other outings. I know she's very busy but I feel that at the very least she should respond to their messages. I just don't know what to do or say to her about this. Should I even be upset about it and just wait until the wedding gets closer to say something??