I'm probably being overcautious, but I'd like your opinions.
I'm having two showers. I had one last weekend and will have the other this coming weekend.
The hostess of the first shower didn't have her gift for me this past week because of shipping, and will possibly give it to me this coming week (as immediate family, she'll be at both). However, she told me that the shipping info says it may not come until next month, after my wedding.
I gave her a thank you present at the end of the first shower and was planning on sending her a note as well. Should I send it this week, and then possibly another one next week? Should I wait for her gift to come in? Hers is the last one I have to write this week, and I don't want her to hear from other immediate family that they got cards and she didn't.
Thanks!