So we sent out our STD with a link to our website - you can RSVP online and some people have (yah!!) But I've also received Info from 2 of my Anties to say that they can't make it. We're marrying in France where we live and my family lives in Australia. So I completely understand that no everyone will be able to accommodate the cost.
My question is do I still send them and Invitation? Sending them to Australia is expensive so.... Is that really terrible rude? Or is it strange to receive an invitation to a wedding you've declined already too?