Dear Prudence,
The people in the apartment next to mine have a child who scream at all hours; the sound is loud and terrible and wakes me up at night. If it were a baby I would try and tell myself it will grow out of this, but the child is 7 years old and on the autism spectrum. What do I do? I don’t feel I should have to move just to get a good night sleep (I was here first, they just moved in last month) but given today’s “understand autism” mentality I am worried if I say anything I will be labeled as the one in the wrong. I am sympathetic to their struggles, to a point. Is there anything I can do? The lack of sleep is messing with my job; friends tell me to inform them that if I get fired because of it, I should sue the family. Thoughts?