I was planning on inviting a coworker/friend to my upcoming wedding, but she has already informed me that she is in the Bridal party of another wedding on the same day as mine (this wedding is 3 hours away). Should I still send her an invite? I don't want to come off as just trying to get a gift by sending her an invite even though she definitely can't come. However, I don't want to give off the impression that I no longer want her there or I'm upset with her for not being able to come. What do you think???