i had my 3 girls ready to be asked to be part of our special day. First my maid of honor agreed before she even hear do the question, next my future sister in law was eager and excited. Then I asked my 2nd bridesmaid last night and I could tell I threw her off guard, she said yes and we started wedding talking for hours. Then this morning she called and told me she cannot be part of my day and hopes I understand. That throws off our lineup. Now I only have 2 and he has 3. Plus I don't know how to go about the news she doesn't want to be part of the day. Has his happened to anyone before?