Grandma-in-law has given a certain amount of $ to each of her grandkids when they got married. My husband was the last of the grandkids to get married a few weeks ago. GIL has Alzheimer's, so MIL told us a few weeks before the wedding that she would make sure grandma gave us the $ and told us the amount we would be receiving as a gift and said it was the same is the other grandkids have received.
Now the wedding has come and gone and we were never given the gift. We were hoping for it to help cover our honeymoon expenses, but DH and I have since covered everything out of pocket. There has been some drama with the family after the wedding and now I wonder if it's because they are upset with me, but I think it's just as likely if not more than likely that my MIL either forgot altogether or thought she gave it to us already. Either way I am worried that it is rude to say anything so I am keeping my mouth shut. Still, I don't think it is fair to my husband since his cousin recently got married earlier this year and MIL made sure the cousin received the gift at the wedding. Is there an amount of time to pass before we should say something or should we just consider it gone and never bring it up?