I am having my godfather/cousin walk me down the aisle. I lost my mother when i was 5 and my father only 3 years ago. I still want to do a father/daughter dance but not sure what song to use. Do I have my godfather pick a song or should I use a song that was meaningful to my father and myself to dance to? Or should we just play the song in memory of him? I do not want to make the wedding a memorial service for my parents but I want to have some kind of reminder that they are there in spirit with me on that day.