I had an out of town bridal shower and rather than brining gifts to the shower, most guests sent them to my home and brought pics of the gifts in cards. As I sit down to do the thank you cards I hit a road block. The gifts were sent as wedding gifts by the family (ie husband wife and kids) but only the women attended the shower. Do I write one thank you for attending the shower, and not mention the gift, and then a second to the family for the gift?