Not Engaged Yet
Too soon to start exploring?
So my BF and I have been dating for four years, living together for a little over 2. We've talked A LOT about the future, and I've known from day one that he didn't want to get married until he's done with school, but that's where we are headed. He is currently 1-2 years away from finishing his PhD and I just started medical school. On our recent anniversary, we were lounging around and out of the blue he said "Let's get married. But not right now." After talking in the past month, we decided that it makes sense to get married sometime in my fourth year of med school, because my school offers a one month break elective and once residency starts we will have no time and likely be far from family. That would put the wedding anytime from June 2020 to June 2021. There is no official proposal at this point, and I don't anticipate there being one for about two years. However, since this is our tentative plan, and medical school will make planning very difficult when the time comes, do you guys think it is too early for me to start checking out venues, vendors, etc?