Move up ceremony for sick grandma?
My fiancé's grandma hasn't been doing well for a while but she's been trying to make it to the wedding. Last week she took a turn and only has days left.
I've been by my fiancé's side only worrying about him and her not even thinking about anything wedding related.
She (in her medicated/delirious state) has been asking about the wedding and what she should wear and such. It's very sad knowing she won't be at the wedding (8 months away) but my fiancé is devastated knowing she won't be there.
One of my close co-workers suggested us having a ceremony for her in her hospital room. The idea briefly crossed my mind but I really don't want to have a special ceremony just for her. Having a "fake ceremony" for her seems wrong and having a "redo" ceremony for my guests seems wrong.
Am I a bitch for not wanting to move up my wedding day for her?