I'm in a weird situation. My cousins are planning a bridal shower for me in my hometown right before Christmas because that's when everyone in my family will be in my hometown anyways so it seemed to be the most convenient choice. My fiance is very upset about the date that was chosen because no one in his family will be able to go, they all live in different states and have their own Christmas plans. It would be very inconvenient for them to come anyways, regardless of the date, because my hometown doesn't even have an airport but he is still upset that I didn't consult with his family before I confirmed the date. He thinks my family should have planned it for a day that his family could go too (even though i doubt any of them would since they all live far away). I would still like to invite his mom and sister (who is in the wedding party), but he said i shouldn't because it would be a "fake invitation" since i know they cant come. So my question is this: is it okay that my family is throwing a bridal shower on a day when his family can't come? And would it be rude to invite his immediate family knowing they won't come because of the date that was chosen? Any insight would be greatly appreciated.