I'm leaning towards no, but I've never been to one, so I'm not sure. It's for my cousin who is having her first. I'm assuming there will be a shower once the baby is born, but I will get her something then even if she doesn't have one.
Any ideas on something nice for my cousin for hosting? Normally I would bring wine, but it seems a little mean to give her something she can't have for a few more months