So, my FMIL brought up to my FH that she wants a Mother/Son spotlight dance... FH said he doesn't care one way or the other, but I have honestly never seen this done at a wedding and find it odd... I guess I just assumed he would dance with his mother later in the evening, just not as a spotlight dance. Aside from me thinking it to be odd, I also think it could/will take up just a lot of time and add to the "boring" part of the wedding; we are not being very traditional and want a fun and upbeat atmosphere. I feel like more spotlight dances would just be... blah. Is that bad of me? I didn't even know they were a thing until she asked.