I have had this problem with my wedding party getting along with everyone..
Whether it's with eachother, with me, or our parents from either side.
They seem uncooperative, & uninterested.
I've even had a few of them suggest to just scratch the wedding party & making everyone just a guests.
My MOH continues to say she wouldn't wish this kind of pressure on anyone? But really hasn't helped with anything.
She has even said i shouldn't have waited so long to get married (it's been a 2yr engagement to be able to afford a wedding & a house) because the "magic is gone".
I asked them not to throw me a bachelorette party or a shower because my wedding is a destination wedding & I understand expenses are high. My MOH insisted.. but continues to complain about the money.
I've not put pressure on them to have expensive bridesmaid dresses. I've said whatever they are comfortable in.
I really don't know what to do.
I feel demoting people will cause more problems. But I dont know how much more I can take of this.