I'm halfway through planning, and I'm just so stressed out over it all. It just sort of hit me that this is ONE DAY that I and my family are spending thousands of dollars on. I wish I could just elope with my fiance, but he really wants a wedding, and also I don't think we could even cancel it all at this point. I feel like there's something wrong with me - I thought I would be so excited to plan a wedding, but instead everything is overpriced and there are so many details to think about that I want to just throw it all out the window and go elope in Tahiti. Are you guys enjoying wedding planning? How do you get over these costs? I'm really trying to budget, but I feel like there's only so much I can do before I have to completely DIY it.