We are planning our wedding for may 11th 2019. We are two people who would elope but my family has guilted me and my mother cries and guilt trips me that it would break her heart and everyone else's. 8ts all any one talks about now and im ready to just call off the whole thing. They all have their ideas of how i should do it and when i say something they tell me why its wrong but two seconds later tell me "you can have it any way you want". I have already been told people are coming without so much as asking me first. I dread it already and thats not how its supposed to be.