I am hosting the bridal shower for my future sister in law and my mother said she doesn't think I should get a gift since I'm hosting the shower. I have only been to one other bridal shower and I don't remember if the host gave the bride and groom a gift. I would feel crappy not giving them a gift. Does the host normally give a gift for the shower? I am definitely giving them something for the wedding. I just didn't know how this works.