She bought the dress!! :(
So i asked my future sister in law if her daughter could be the flower girl in our wedding. They were very excited and I told her kind of what I had in mind for the dress. A couple weeks later she sent me 3 pics of dresses from online and told me to pick one! I told her they were cute but I hadn't had a chance to look around yet and we were in no rush. She emails me a couple days ago and says she wants to get the dress next month and which did I pick. I emailed her back.and said since there is another flowergirl I thought we would all go shopping together and pick something out. I also explained that I really did not want to purchase online due to the color possibly not matching. She said fine and to let her know. She called me yesterday and said she ordered the dress online and already had it and if it matched that is one we are going with!!!!!!!! I am really upset and feel like she has a lot of nerve to do this even when I said I didn't want to order them online! I wouldn't have made them get dresses the mothers didn't like but I thought it would have been nice to include everyone since there are two flowergirls! Does anyone else think this is ridiculous?? My FI says just be nice this is the way she is!!!!!!