My priest said that the maid of honor and best man need to be a married catholic couple who does not belong to any of our families. The priest says that these are the people that we will ask for advice during the rough times of marriage.
Out of the people in our A list there's only one couple who meets this requirement. Though, neither one of us is close enough to them to give them this title which is so important and are not the type of people I go to for relationship advice. Plus, they're not dumb, they'll know I picked them because it was a requirement.
I got other 2 couples on our B list, who meet that requirement and whom have given us relationship advice, mostly because they have been our mentors in other areas of our lives. I would think that these people would be a better choice than the first couple considering what the priest says would be their "dutties" but, we have them on our B list! I feel like I'll be giving a very important part of my wedding to someone that might not have been invited otherwise!
I'm really confused! Any advice?