Me and my fiancee are getting married by the courts in a few weeks, and by the church next summer. The reason why we are getting married early is in order to get a VA loan for a house that we really really want. It is our dream to be homeowners. I want this to happen however part of me doesnt want to regret jumping the gun and on my wedding day not being about to think " I'm getting married today". Instead I will think " I'm getting married today, oh wait....I'm already married". Its really hard to determine which one I want more. I kind of want the house more....but on my wedding day I might regret it. So confused!!