I wish I was better at making decisions... Anyway, I have a great friend who has been extremely helpful with the wedding. She just moved here in August and has already been more helpful than all the bridesmaids put together. I just found out that she made special plans to be here for the wedding (she is a teacher and will not be coming back next year). With her leaving, I'm not sure how close we are going to be in the future. But, I really want her to be a part of the wedding to show my appreciation for all the help that she has done.
So here is the problem: do I make her a personal attendant? or a bridesmaid? If she was a personal attendent, I would make sure that we had pictures together and she would be with the bridal party all day getting ready. If she is a bridesmaid, there is a chance that our friendship will dwindle. I don't want to look back at pictures and wonder who that girl in the pictures are. (Although with facebook we will probably stay in touch).
What would you do?