So, fi and I got engaged in September and are planning a late June wedding in 2010. My older brother, who I have had a rocky relationship with, has all of a sudden announced that he will be proposing to his girlfriend early in June. Fi and I tried gently suggesting that he wait until the following month, and he wouldn't listen - seems it has to be done by the time my wedding comes around. My family is thrilled about his news even though they barely know his girlfriend, and our whole time together at Thanksgiving was spent talking about those two. I felt like my upcoming wedding was already being overshadowed. I am upset that he has suddenly decided to do this just before our wedding and won't wait until even a week after it. Am I being ridiculous getting upset about the timing? If so, how do I deal and let it go? If not, what can I do to express myself to him? Advice greatly appreciated.