An update on my Bridezilla...I was thrown out of the wedding!
I oringinally posted about three weeks ago about how I was dealing with a Bridezilla, and needed advice on if I should step down as my friend's MOH due to the way she was treating me. Everyone who responded gave great advice, and I gave myself a few weeks to think about and write out some of my thoughts. I decided in the end that I was going to not go to her bachelorette party; the party was getting so expensive and I couldn't afford to spend all the money driving/flying to her hometown to attend, and then turn around two weeks later and do the same thing for her wedding. So essentially, I could just afford to attend her wedding weekend.
So, I told her that I couldn't afford to attend her bachelorette party and she sent me a message and basically threw me out of her wedding and told me that I can "shove my invitation up my ass." So I have been offically stripped of my MOH title and am not even attending as a guest. I just told her "Okay, sounds good. I will not be there." She sent me another message to basically tell me I am a bad friend, but I haven't responded being as I was kicked out of her wedding. There is nothing more to say to her; except maybe to suggest that she seeks mental health treatment for being insane.
Honestly, this is a GOOD thing for me. A weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. Plus I learned how NOT to behave if I ever get engaged and start planning a wedding...haha.
Thanks everyone who responded for the advice. And who knows? I am currently in a great relationship; maybe I will be back on this board soon...with a POSITIVE post about my bridal party...and to set any future bridezilla straight!
Re: An update on my Bridezilla...I was thrown out of the wedding!
I'm sure your bad experience will help you be a better friend when it's your turn.
Are you friends with anyone else in the bridal party? You know we're gonna want all the gory details of how everything else goes!
You can still stick around the boards even if you aren't engaged!
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