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lovesclimbing said:Knottie1432317390 said:*snip*". It annoyed my husband and I because we knew they wouldn't be covering their guests plate costs, and we were already on a SUPER TIGHT BUDGET.
climbingwife said:If you're already posting on all of these baby boards, WHY are you posting here?
Also, I don't think any of us are interested in seeing your uterus. You come here every few months with these long, drawn out posts, and yet, you've not once contributed anything to anyone else's posts.
I'm just uncomfortable.Report11
Ro041 said:I went to a wedding the weekend before 4th of July. We haven't gotten a thank you note in the mail. I keep thinking about it though...
STARMOON44 said:banana468 said:banana468 said:If you're only doing this because the church "has rules", then get a copy of the church rules and give them to her and her husband.
I'm calling BS on that though. I find it very hard to believe that church rules would be so strict that they would bar the Mother of the Groom from attending her son's wedding because her blouse isn't "nice enough".
That said OP, you can tell your FMIL what the church requirements are and she can dress to those requirements.
I have to say though, in so much of your posts they seem.....drama-ridden. Why are you having a formal wedding if the MOG is going to be uncomfortable?
In any weddings I've been to at a church or temple so conservative that head covering is required, the venue always has extra in the lobby for non-member guests. They know every guest won't be familiar with their requirements or they'll forget.
If this is really all about the church requiring head coverings, the church or the couple needs to provide them *for MANY guests - not just FMIL* or lots of their guests will be booted. But then it's not just about FMIL, is it?
Cutting through the bullshit here, this sounds like OP is having a formal (calling BS on it actually being black tie) wedding and wants her FMIL to "step it up". At the maximum, OP can give FMIL the church's written requirements (in their words, not OP's). Once she does that, she needs to focus her energy elsewhere and stop trying to micromanage her FMIL's clothing.
These are almost all from reddit, and probably the only reason I go on reddit anymore. If you want to read these kinds of disgusting posts all the time, go to /r/relationships and sort by controversial. Also, for another [depressing] laugh, go to /r/legaladvice and sort by controversial.
Edit omg I commented before I finished. I remember that last one, they lived together when he ghosted her! And her "becoming obsessed" and "causing various scenes" was her freaking out because her live-in boyfriend of 3 years just disappeared one day with no explanation!