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Thanks for the advice everyone! Actually, the inlaws and my parents are the ones pushing for this but I refuse to have anything big-it's silly now, and unnecessary.
However, the first time around was at a very weird "church", I looked terrible and my father in law took awful pictures. No one from my family was there. It was when we were both on leave from Okinawa after John got back from deployment #1. It was not "a lovely wedding" more lie a formality. It was NOT at all what we wanted-but in the military you have to make do.
Either way I feel more like I've been pointed in the right direction