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I always dig into my "re-gift" closet for those people....
She may just be saying that she is going to use it hoping it will get back to you and grind your gears. Say nothing, it will just give her what she wants. I wouldn't be surprised if when her baby comes the name isn't what she's advertising now.
For now go onto your profile and delete your real name and his! That's how I solved people finding mine before I was ready! (and before I found out you could password protect) Do that too!
If the kids were 6 and 10, I would say it is more likely just kids not wanting someone new in their lives and the whole "you're not my dad, you're not the boss of me thing" At 14 and 21 I would take a closer look at why they don't approve.Certainly having been raised by you, they know you better than anyone else in the world and they may see something you don't.Probably not the answer you want but worth thinking about IMO.
Not ok, I would have responded to her text with "That's weird, we're here and there is no sign of you..."I would definitely not hire her again and be sure to tell your relatives who hire her to watch their pets as well. She clearly isn't doing what she says she is and in my book, that's a deal breaker.