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briannamarie1024 Thanks so much for the referral. I have since spoken with her and she is amazing. Also, she said if you contact her she would give you a free session for the referral.
I understand people being upset about marrying for benefits, but if you are already planning on getting married, I would think the military community would be more understanding. Maybe its because I'm a military brat, and come from generations of military, but I understand the need for the quickie wedding sometimes. I don't understand why people get so upset about the second ceremony (whether its a vow renewal or not it is still a ceremony. The term ceremony has no bearing on the legality on the situation). My fiance's report date has been moved up, but I've already been planning my wedding and don't plan on changing the date a few months out. We are considering living room vows by my father (a minister) and later the wedding for the family. I don't think its wrong or unethical. We haven't decided yet, but our decision won't be based on other people's opinions.
Thanks I will try both! I just needed a starting place.
@ohannabelle. I don't know what I was thinking (call it a moment of being love crazed) but I did already say yes. I guess I was trying to endear his family to me. Anyway, I think you are right. Thanks. One song, no more.