So many things not right with this. I don't see how her shower a week after your wedding is a big deal or petty. If you can't make it, you say, "Thank you for the invite, but I will not be able … (View Post)
Just ask them one on one - go out to lunch or ask over the phone. I suggest one on one in case a friend has to say no and it doesn't get awkward. (View Post)