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        <title>Another DIY project (PIP)</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/335926/another-diy-project-pip</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 06:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>bsims726</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Another late night, another project done *giant yawn*. Gosh, I wish somebody would've warned me about the sleepness nights the week of the wedding can bring (or maybe somebody did &amp; just didn't listen lol). <br /><br />How did I do?<br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/5/bf086643-a620-4660-956f-ba9bf7a59312.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/5/bf086643-a620-4660-956f-ba9bf7a59312.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br />(Thinking about adding some type of ribbon&nbsp;so my daughter could hold it better)]]>
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        <title>SN: 50 shades of grey</title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 20:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>keysmit</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Hey,<br /><br />I guess I haven't been able to plan because i have been so consumed in the book 50 shades of grey.. Have anybody read it? <br /><br />Key</p>]]>
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        <title>*mejai1*</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/338142/mejai1</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2012 19:03:27 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>TysWife2Be</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[YGM]]>
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        <title>Q of the night...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/339715/q-of-the-night</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2012 02:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>msbdumas</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Think im just having a moment...I went thru my list earlier today and was reviewing things that need to be paid off. DIY supplies I need to buy and projects that need to be started and completed on.  I kinda asked myself...Why I am I spending all this money and stressing over this one day ? Do any of you feel like this from time to time ?]]>
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        <title>30 days to go and I need</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/336179/30-days-to-go-and-i-need</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2012 13:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>rowenac82</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[you ladies to challenge my to do list. Below is what I think I have to left to do:<div>-Buy sparklers</div><div>-Buy parent's gifts</div><div>-Buy escort cards</div><div>-Do seating chart</div><div>-Buy programs</div><div>-Buy Blue I do stickers&nbsp;</div><div>-Write day of schedule and Bridesmaid's schedule</div><div>-Follow-ups (hair dresser,make up artist, dj, florist, venue)</div><div><br /></div><div>What am I forgetting?</div><div><br /></div>]]>
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        <title>VP: $17 for $70</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/322345/vp-17-for-70</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2012 00:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>keyaira04</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<div>God. Answers. Prayers! (And TK posts)</div><div><br /></div><a href="http://www.groupon.com/deals/vistaprint-asheville-1?utm_medium=afl&amp;utm_campaign=3309583&amp;utm_source=rvs" rel="nofollow">http://www.groupon.com/deals/vistaprint-asheville-1?utm_medium=afl&amp;utm_campaign=3309583&amp;utm_source=rvs</a>]]>
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        <title>Kirsten Kuehn Sale!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/342643/kirsten-kuehn-sale</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 21:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>MsAmeera25</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<div><span>Hey Ladies,</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>Not sure if anyone needs sashes or accessories but Kirsten is having a flash sale which almost never happens. Hope this helps someone...enjoy!</span></div><span><span><br /></span>Take 40% off anything in our store today only! Enter "FLASHSALE" at checkout - (coupon expires at midnight)</span><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.kirstenkuehndesigns.com/" target="_blank">www.kirstenkuehndesigns.com</a>]]>
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        <title>Double Checks!!! Yay Me!! PIP</title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 18:31:42 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>Dannitra01</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>It feels fantastic to finally be getting some things crossed off our to-do list. This weekend&nbsp;we went shopping for our bands. I found a beauty that compliments my ring perfectly. FI also found one that he loved. <br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/0/0f39cef9-360b-4e4c-90c2-27ee1dc88b22.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/0/0f39cef9-360b-4e4c-90c2-27ee1dc88b22.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br />This is the band alone <br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/15/5ff5cc12-6927-4eb1-8fb9-fcb38be17076.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/15/5ff5cc12-6927-4eb1-8fb9-fcb38be17076.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br />My ring with the band....it makes my e-ring look completely different<br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/3/7/a301e2a6-c4f5-4c1a-b7c2-176009b6c68a.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/3/7/a301e2a6-c4f5-4c1a-b7c2-176009b6c68a.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br />The band he tried on was rose gold, but his is going to be ordered in white gold. <br /><br />On Sunday my BM and I all went shopping for their dresses. I had already spotted one online that I liked online and I knew that they just had to try it on. As it turned out, that was the only dress they needed to try on. Because I was completely in LOVE with it as soon as the first girl stepped out in it. The shop owner was so kind and helpful and even gave the ladies $25 off their dresses. <br /><br />I am so excited and I can't wait to see what they are going to look like in them. </p>]]>
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        <title>VS Bridal Panty--FREE</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/329760/vs-bridal-panty-free</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 20:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>keyaira04</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<span><a id="uhdgzo_77" href="https://www.facebook.com/#" rel="nofollow">A Lacie for the Bride! Free with any purchase thru 9/16. In stores &amp; online.</a></span><div><br /></div><div><div><span>Check their FB site to yours!</span></div><div>Expires September 16, 2012</div><div><div id="id_504fa6e7c4b629c59420030">Store Associates Please Enter: 4015 at checkout.   GIFT DESCRIPTION:   All white Lacie <div>with Bride bling wording on band. Style#10832938</div></div></div></div>]]>
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        <title>*mejai1 *</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/331059/mejai1</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 22:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>TysWife2Be</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hey!<br /><br />We (the LA girls) are meeting this weekend...will you be able to make it out?]]>
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        <title>Fan Programs</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/329320/fan-programs</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2012 02:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>Toiizloved</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Who's doing their own fan programs?? Where did you get your cardstock. I just did a sample program and my cardstock is not thick enough. I got mine from Joanns... HELLLP]]>
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        <title>I ♥ Etsy!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/322084/i-etsy</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 17:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>SyAmaya</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I ordered these stickers as part of our gift to OOT guests... I'm baking cookies and cupcakes and sealing the boxes with these stickers! I was a little concerned as the seller didn't have 100% positive feedback, but they came today! Yay!<br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/6/2/a6f157bf-44cf-4c3c-929a-beac87d50339.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/6/2/a6f157bf-44cf-4c3c-929a-beac87d50339.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a>]]>
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        <title>Omni Hotel just got</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/326461/omni-hotel-just-got</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 14:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>CaseynMike</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[hung the hell up on......I am making calls for hotel blocks and I called the Omni Royal to get a bid. Well the man told me since my wedding wasn't at their hotel I still had a food and beverage minimum to meet by either serving my guests brunch or lunch...on top of it it is a $2500 minimum....<div><br /></div><div>Really?? Should I just suggest hotels for people and let them make their own arrangements? Or should I do a block?</div>]]>
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        <title>DIY BRIDES HEADS UP</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/338554/diy-brides-heads-up</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 17:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>CaseynMike</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Not for sure if any or some of you have heard of this site but the lady who is decorating my wedding uses this site<div><br /></div><div><a href="http://www.efavormart.com/index.aspx" rel="nofollow">http://www.efavormart.com/index.aspx</a></div><div><br /></div>]]>
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        <title>Hotel Blocks......</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/341441/hotel-blocks</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 16:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>CaseynMike</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[So I am working on hotel blocks for my guests and LAWD ya'll....there would be a medical convention in New Orleans the WEEKEND of my wedding...all of the room rates we are getting range from $139/night to $169/night. I didn't look at any rooms in Metairie or Kenner because I assume people would want to be able to walk to eating places and to the French Quarters if they wanted to do so...OHMYLANTA!! What were the running rates for you all with your hotel blocks?]]>
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        <title>I&#39;m bored. Lets talk wedding crap!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/337369/im-bored-lets-talk-wedding-crap</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 01:59:23 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>footballwife77</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /><br />I'm bored. I don't have work tomorrow because i'm taking the boy to get his braces on in the morning. So lets talk accessories. Did I ever show you guys my new shoes??? I was going to go with the champions below (got them on clearance @ payless for $10.&nbsp; Fiance said they were ugly plus they were white. Then I bought Ivory glitter Toms they were TOO ivory (actually a weird yellow'ish color) plus they were too small. I ended up selling those ones actually and recouping my $. Then I FINALLY found my wedding shoes... I got them on clearance at Macys for $12.00. I can't WAIT To wear them! i'm editing this post in a couple mins with pictures of my jewelry. I'm not sure which necklace i'm going with. I got both neclaces on sale at macys for $10 each and the earrings were $7. SCORE! Let me see your accessories!<br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/4/12/54380e3b-0f42-4308-8c62-1ff708e71ca8.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/4/12/54380e3b-0f42-4308-8c62-1ff708e71ca8.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br />MY WEDDING SHOES BELOW!!!! YAY!!! <br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/2/0/b2d97b75-f172-4d9c-800c-c0dadbb3d827.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/2/0/b2d97b75-f172-4d9c-800c-c0dadbb3d827.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br />Shoes with more ACCESORIES (and the kitty) lol<br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/9/2/f9f783ab-636e-43f8-92fb-ed24c559ec7d.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/9/2/f9f783ab-636e-43f8-92fb-ed24c559ec7d.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br />The jewels<br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/9/8/b9f7f000-2278-472d-a841-be200f135c9e.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/9/8/b9f7f000-2278-472d-a841-be200f135c9e.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br />My something blue that's going on the back of my shoe<br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/8/14/d872b97d-933f-4d72-8ecf-5b787f275748.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/8/14/d872b97d-933f-4d72-8ecf-5b787f275748.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br />&nbsp;]]>
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        <title>I was inspired *PIP*</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/322908/i-was-inspired-pip</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 23:51:26 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>thedivav</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I was inspired by&nbsp; <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.theknot.com/profiles/HardyLove222/wedding-planner/favorites" target="_blank">HardyLove222</a>&nbsp;to work on my wedding monogram<div>my colors are grape, silver, and peony&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>here are a few samples not sure i am in love with any of these....&nbsp;</div><div>what do yall think&nbsp;</div><div><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/13/3/7ddaa643-a9e7-45e6-93a7-d2f3157b1620.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/13/3/7ddaa643-a9e7-45e6-93a7-d2f3157b1620.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /></div><div><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/0/6/104367d0-de04-49c4-a63c-8143b5f9b30c.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/0/6/104367d0-de04-49c4-a63c-8143b5f9b30c.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /></div><div><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/6/df795145-444c-4ba6-b6f9-86c74c108175.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/6/df795145-444c-4ba6-b6f9-86c74c108175.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/10/7/6afa3357-8f73-4c1f-a702-35a23fff8266.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/10/7/6afa3357-8f73-4c1f-a702-35a23fff8266.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /></div>]]>
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        <title>Dollar Tree Picture Frames</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/326439/dollar-tree-picture-frames</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 20:27:02 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>meshee1234</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hey ladies, just got an email from dollar tree. They have a new selection of picture frames.  Some of you may be interested in using them in wedding decor.  Happy shopping guys!

<a href="http://www.dollartree.com/new-arrivals-seasonal/while-supplies-last/215c276c276/index.cat?index=0&amp;viewall=1" rel="nofollow">http://www.dollartree.com/new-arrivals-seasonal/while-supplies-last/215c276c276/index.cat?index=0&amp;viewall=1</a>]]>
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        <title>How much for DJ</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/337339/how-much-for-dj</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 03:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>Toiizloved</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hey Knotties

Ive been quoted a few prices for wedding djs and they are outrageous. The cheapestive found is 800, they will do the ceremony music, reception, lights and also coordinate everything. Am I being cheap or does that sound like a lot? The vendor has amazing reviews and I believe I will be saving with not having to hire a DOC. What you think?? I would love to hire lil Ray Ray from the hood but im almost positive the quality will not be the same..]]>
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        <title>*monet, mejia, misskin, ksk*</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/342608/monet-mejia-misskin-ksk</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 05:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>TysWife2Be</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I spoke with Nicole (monet) and she and I are both still in for next week...<div><br /></div><div>Are you ladies still in as well?</div><div><br /></div><div>Where would you like to meet?</div><div><br /></div><div>BJs has been thrown out there but is there anywhere else you ladies would like to meet?</div>]]>
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        <title>My e-vite!! (LIP)</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/336711/my-e-vite-lip</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 12:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>RealHappyGal</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I made my evite on COCODOT &amp; I LOVE it !!!<br /><br />I hope the link works: <a href="http://cocodot.com/products/yCCSPxADzVYx3Q%252FqtA4bFQ%253D%253D/preview/webpage?back=true&amp;guest_view=true" rel="nofollow">http://cocodot.com/products/yCCSPxADzVYx3Q%252FqtA4bFQ%253D%253D/preview/webpage?back=true&amp;guest_view=true</a><br /><br /><br />Im very happy about the outcome.&nbsp; What do you guys think?]]>
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        <title>Good News &amp;amp; updates</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/322221/good-news-updates</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 07:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>RealHappyGal</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hello Ladies !!<br /><br />Sorry I havent been around much lately.&nbsp; Life has been just a roller coaster but, I have some great ... GREAT&nbsp; God's Grace news !!!<br /><br />#1&nbsp; Im so happy to be an MRS.&nbsp; Life with hubbie is fantastic.&nbsp; We got married and we just stop fighting all together.&nbsp; It may be partially because there really isnt space for it with all that had been going on with his mother.... that brins us to #2<br /><br />#2... Hubbies mom is doing MUCH MUCH better.&nbsp; We suspect she's gonna get the boot from the hospice facility !!&nbsp; Her renal failure was acute (short term) and seems to had been related to the infection.&nbsp;&nbsp; After rounds of antibiotics she seems to be taking a turn for the better... so.....<br /><br />#3 We have rescheduled the reception for 9/23/2012.&nbsp; Im very happy about not having to wait too long.&nbsp;&nbsp; It will be a sunday brunch.&nbsp; Hubbie said he's not renting a tux again but, will just wear a suit he owns along with a new shirt that matches.&nbsp;&nbsp; We'll do the same with my sons.&nbsp; We dont have time to get new invites so,&nbsp; I went to <a href="http://www.cocodot.com" rel="nofollow">www.cocodot.com</a> and created e-invites and also sent out thank you ecards to all the guests that we cancelled on. Thanking them for their time an inconvenience.&nbsp; <br /><br />God is good,&nbsp; he is the best provider!]]>
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        <title>Re-Use Dress?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/329641/re-use-dress</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 13:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>RealHappyGal</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Im facing the dilema of if I should wear my wedding dress again to the ceremony.&nbsp; Lots of people have seen pictures of me in it already but, I never got pro photos in it (with how the wedding was so rushed) and $1170 is alot of money to only wear once when there is an oppertunity to wear twice.&nbsp; AND its alot of $$ to spend to had never gotten the pro pics either.&nbsp; <br /><br />But, do I wear a big poofy wedding dress when everyone knows its not the 'real wedding'?&nbsp; Im afraid its an etiquette question but, Im not even trying to go there....LOL they prob say I shouldnt have a ceremony at all... bump that,&nbsp; I want to walk that aisle and now Im kinda excited to do it with hubbie in hand :)<br /><br />So what do you guys think ?<br />O and my BMs will be wearing their dresses<br /><br />I was kinda agains the changing dress thing because the reception is VERY short to begin with.  Just 3 hours long<br /><br />]]>
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        <title>Wedding Day Vent</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/330886/wedding-day-vent</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 13:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>shano06</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[So our venue gave us $1,000 off to get married on a Friday. So for us, big bonus. Wedding on Friday. Some of FI's family members are coming from OOT. About a 3hr drive. We already got the confirmation from some that they would definitely come, and some said they can't. Okayy cool. I understand the whole getting off of work and having to drive to&nbsp;make it there by 6:30. I get that. But when its people that live here in this vicintity that call us or msg us and ask why are we having our wedding on a Friday and are being rude about it, thats when I get mad. Like I literally had this convo: <br />-Why yall getting married on a Friday? <br />-Discount. <br />-Yall already spending all this money, yall couldnt pay extra to get married on a Saturday?? <br />-No, we couldn't are you gonna give us the extra 1k, cuz if you are then we'll get married on Saturday. <br />-I just think you're inconviencing your guests by making them take off of work.<br />-Look, if you don't want to come you don't have to. The people that really wanna be there will be there. Guests will know the date 6months in advance so they can plan accordingly. Sounds like to me you're just making excuses, so I can just cross you off the list right now.<br />-I was just saying.<br />-Well so am I.<br /><br />Really.?? FI and I aren't asking anybody to take off. Our wedding isn't until 6:30 and we're totally prepared to start at 7 if we have to. I'm sure if you really wanna be there you will make it. I don't have time to stress over this cause forreal the only people that realy need to be there are me, FI, and Pastor. Everybody else can stay the hell home. It's just irritating to hear it back to back. Like I just wanna put on the Save The Dates in bold FRIDAY if you don't like it don't come. I don't know about them, but I know alot of people that look for reasons to get off of work. I'm helping you out.]]>
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        <title>Reception Dress?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/337356/reception-dress</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 12:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>MrsSmith2Be02</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Anybody changing? I'm still on the fence. I want to, but I dont know.]]>
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        <title>Songs and Music</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/331416/songs-and-music</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 22:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>M1ssJ</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Ok what songs will be in your ceremony?<br /><br />I am having a brain fart on songs to use. Does this order look correct? Where do I need songs that dont have them?<br /><br />Seating&nbsp; of the Parents-&nbsp; Air on G string<br /><br />Groom- I choose you- UGK<br /><br />Bridal Party Entrance- Coldplay -Clocks or So High - John Legend or Count on me<br /><br />Bride- ???? - Love is You/Golden/ Make you feel my love<br /><br />Invocation<br /><br />Declaration of intent<br /><br />Reading <br /><br />Vows<br /><br />Rings<br /><br />Foot Washing/ Unity Cross/ something - Ava Maria<br /><br />Wine Ceremony -<br /><br />Closing Words<br /><br />Presentation of Couple (Kiss)<br /><br />Recessional - ?????<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />]]>
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        <title>Dress Order</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/332947/dress-order</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 00:19:02 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>ladycane015</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I have 10 girls in the BP. 7 have ordered their dresses. Deadline was Aug 31. 3 have not. The dresses are being ordered online and basically I set the Aug 31 deadline but technically they could still order on a later date. So we're a little over a week past the deadline and none of them have mentioned it at all and I'm sure if I don't say anything neither will they. At what point do you put your foot down and what do you say lol? I'm fine if they aren't in the wedding anymore I just need to know as far as ordering the thing I have to purchase for them. Also, everyone will be ordering their shoes in one month. Wedding is in 5 months.]]>
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        <title>So excited! My first DIY project - PIP</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/341932/so-excited-my-first-diy-project-pip</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 18:21:36 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>HardyLove222</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I just finished my first DIY Project! Whoopee!<br /><br />It's small but it's the first thing I officially have done (major procrastinator here! lol) <br /><br />I included a poll to see which border color I should go with. My wedding colors are Teal, (deep) orange and maybe brown (I'm still thinking of a third color). <br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/4/9/c462ee15-594d-4ef9-b921-f086e622519f.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/4/9/c462ee15-594d-4ef9-b921-f086e622519f.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/6/2/060f6f0a-e07c-41af-b28e-97ac73ca07e5.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/6/2/060f6f0a-e07c-41af-b28e-97ac73ca07e5.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />My next project is the save the dates (magnets). Thanks for your input ladies<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />]]>
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        <title>POSTAGE!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/335992/postage</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 16:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>MrsSmith2Be02</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[OK ladies.....so is there a way to get around that .20 hand cancel fee?<br /><br />Because that jumped my postage from .65 up to .85....and the 85 cent stamps 1 are 20 cents more and they are UGLY!]]>
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        <title>***YOGIE***</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/342908/yogie</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 00:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>African American Weddings</category>
        <dc:creator>footballwife77</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I think I finally got the pm! lol. You got one back!]]>
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