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Challenges planning my own wedding
knottie2127744501aa4279
12/ 3/23 1:09AM

Hey everyone! I'm newly engaged and beginning the wedding planning process right now! Honestly, figuring out all the details has been a bit … Read more

12/ 3/23 1:09AM
Challenges with planning my own wedding
knottie2127744501aa4279
12/ 3/23 1:06AM

Hey everyone! I'm newly engaged and beginning the wedding planning process right now! Honestly, figuring out all the details has been a bit … Read more

12/ 3/23 1:06AM
Challenges planning my own wedding
knottie2127744501aa4279
12/ 3/23 1:02AM

Hey everyone! I'm knee-deep in wedding planning chaos right now! Honestly, figuring out all the details has been a bit of a struggle. Am I t… Read more

12/ 3/23 1:02AM
Wedding planning challenges
knottie2127744501aa4279
12/ 3/23 1:00AM

Hey everyone! I'm planning my wedding right now! Honestly, it’s been a struggle having to coordinate and plan everything. Am I overthinkin… Read more

12/ 3/23 1:00AM
Wedding planning challenges
knottie2127744501aa4279
12/ 3/23 12:58AM

Hey everyone! I'm knee-deep in wedding planning chaos right now! Honestly, figuring out all the details has been a bit of a struggle. Am I t… Read more

12/ 3/23 12:58AM
Wedding planning challenges
knottie2127744501aa4279
12/ 2/23 10:38PM

Hey everyone! I'm knee-deep in wedding planning chaos right now! Honestly, figuring out all the details has been a bit of a struggle. Am I … Read more

12/ 2/23 10:38PM
Happy Friday!
ei34
12/ 1/23 1:50PM

And happy annual BBW candle sale day to all who celebrate ;)   Had our final parent/teacher conference last night, phew.  Grading tonigh… Read more

12/ 1/23 1:50PM
This is so frustrating, LW.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:53PM

Dear Prudence, My brother Ryan and his wife Laura got married a few months ago. I was a bridesmaid and was thrilled to be a part of their b… Read more

11/30/23 4:53PM
Tell B you want to know what J said.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:59PM

Dear Prudence, Is it better to know what your best friend said behind your back or is it best to leave it alone? I have two close friends, … Read more

11/30/23 4:59PM
Gwen can kick rocks all the way to HR.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:29PM

Dear Prudence, I am happily single and a cat mom. My work has mandatory weekend overtime because the company is so overwhelmed, and it goes… Read more

11/30/23 5:29PM
Evict him from your home and your life, like …
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:17PM

Dear Prudence, I recently started dating someone and we fell in love. It’s been six months and he has moved in. He works nights, 9 p.m.- … Read more

11/30/23 4:17PM
Stop hosting.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:16PM

zDear Prudence,My husband and I host the weekly family dinner ever since my in-laws sold their house for a retirement community. We are the … Read more

11/30/23 4:16PM
Your social media can be private, you know. …
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:04PM

Dear Prudence, My partner and I have been together for four years and haven’t had a vacation together since the pandemic, so we are plann… Read more

11/30/23 5:04PM
They're sizing you up for skinsuits...RUN!
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:02PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I recently reconnected with an old friend of his from high school. We all went to the same school; the two of… Read more

11/30/23 5:02PM
Why...just...why would you do this again?
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:07PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend is having a knee replaced. The spouse and I are providing in-home care after surgery. After the last surgery,… Read more

11/30/23 5:07PM
You're never going to get the relationship yo…
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:23PM

Dear Prudence, My mom and I have always had a tenuous relationship. She never agreed with my life choices or lack of religion and I never f… Read more

11/30/23 4:23PM
Just put the movie on, and settle in with him…
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:58PM

Dear Prudence, Before my current boyfriend, I had very strong internal rules about how I would spend my time and what I’d do with someone… Read more

11/30/23 4:58PM
Don't say anything unless they break up.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:17PM

Dear Prudence, My brother-in-law’s girlfriend is my close friend. She’s confided in me that he’s crossed the line into emotionally ab… Read more

11/30/23 5:17PM
Put it in writing and stick it on the fridge.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:18PM

Dear Prudence, My younger sister is in the process of trying to leave her abusive boyfriend, toddler in tow. I’m overjoyed that she seems… Read more

11/30/23 4:18PM
Say something, but he doesn't seem that into …
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:05PM

Dear Prudence, I was on an epic vacation and posted pictures on Facebook for 10 days. My friend-with-benefits never “liked” any of my p… Read more

11/30/23 5:05PM
Find someone you want to look at.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:21PM

Dear Prudence, I am falling in deep love with a woman who I am not physically attracted to. Her mind, humor, and life goals are attractive … Read more

11/30/23 5:21PM
Stop diagnosing Bob and tell him he upset you…
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:16PM

Dear Prudence, I got married recently (yay!). Before the wedding, my friends organized a bachelor party for me. One friend, who we can call… Read more

11/30/23 5:16PM
You can't fix her insecurity.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:20PM

Dear Prudence, Any advice on how to handle different financial situations within families when it comes to the holidays? As background, aft… Read more

11/30/23 5:20PM
LW, I am so sad for you.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 6:38PM

Dear Prudence, I hate my body. For a good six months, I (F, age 38, two kids) reached a lower weight goal after following a strict diet and… Read more

11/30/23 6:38PM
Leave him.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:20PM

Dear Prudence, My (she/her) relationship with my fiancé (he/him) is lovely, but we have an issue around smoking. I was a smoker when we me… Read more

11/30/23 4:20PM
It's one review, dude.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 3:53PM

Dear Prudence, A bunch of my friends are getting married next year. One of them was talking to me about DJs. She brought up the name of som… Read more

11/30/23 3:53PM
Yes, your feelings are valid. Also, therapy.…
mrsconn23
11/30/23 4:55PM

Dear Prudence, I am 28 years old. A few months ago, my mother left my father and their home to live with the husband of a recently deceased… Read more

11/30/23 4:55PM
Time for some boundaries (and stop commenting…
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:11PM

Dear Prudence, I am the only family my sister has nearby. She married a lazy man who has never done a chore in his life without being nagge… Read more

11/30/23 5:11PM
Rip the bandaid off and tell her. Now.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:18PM

Dear Prudence, I’m pregnant and am due December 2nd. My mom wants to stay with us from December 9 to early January (as she normally does)… Read more

11/30/23 5:18PM
You did the best you could, LW.
mrsconn23
11/30/23 5:25PM

Dear Prudence, More than a decade ago, my family of six lived in a cramped three-bedroom one-bath house. It was over a century old and had … Read more

11/30/23 5:25PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

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11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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