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        <title>California-Los Angeles — The Knot Community</title>
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        <pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 11:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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        <title>Great DJ! tried and true!!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/705795/great-dj-tried-and-true</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 06:51:05 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>mininickle</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I know how hard it is to find a good DJ and who knows...the testimonials you read could be total bull! We got married in June and I want to recomend my DJ. HE WAS AMAZING!<br /><br />I can not say enough amazing things about him...we didn't need a coordinator because he kept everything on track, his music choices were amazing, his transistions were amazing and he even helped out in other places of set up when he was done setting up!!! He just started his own company after leaving the company he was working with for YEARS and he has over 16 years of experience! You will not regret meeting with him!<br /><br />Shoot over to his website<br /><br />djtasos.com <br /><br />and fill out an inquiry...mention that Nicole sent you and he will hook you up! :) <br /><br />Thanks and congrats, ladies!!!<br />]]>
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        <title>Downtown Los Angeles - Vibiana</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706824/downtown-los-angeles-vibiana</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 04:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>brigidmcdonough</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Has anyone gotten married at Vibiana in LA or has been to a wedding there.&nbsp; Pros and cons if you have them.<br />Thanks]]>
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        <title>OOT bags - what to include?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/705989/oot-bags-what-to-include</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 17:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>TurtlesAllTheWayDown</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hey guys! I hae a LOT of OOT guests and I really want to do welcome bags. I'm planning on including a brochure of wedding activities/local attractions/contact info, a local map, water bottles, maybe some Starbucks Via, and what else?<br /><br />I'd really like to give them a local treat. I was considering See's Candies (which is sort of local, even though it's SF-based), but I can't find anything fro less than $7 online. (I was thinking a 2 or 4 piece container of chocolates - no luck.) I don't want to spend more than $2-$3 on whatever it is I find, per bag, since I'll have seriously 20-30 bags. Any ideas?<br />]]>
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        <title>Now I&#39;m stressing...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707605/now-im-stressing</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 20:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>xxquemirasxx</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[He they had one of those emotions face things of biting your nails man this is where it belongs....<br /><br />If someone of you remember the offiiciant we were using could no longer do it for us well FI trying to be very sweet said he would take on that task...well he has not and 6 weeks to go and we need to get a move on. No time to waste!!!<br /><br />So in less than 30mins I've been 3 email asking for pricing and availability<br /><br />keep my fingers crossed!!!<br />]]>
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        <title>Does anyone in the Flower district in LA deliver?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707434/does-anyone-in-the-flower-district-in-la-deliver</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 21:29:04 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>gamingangel</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Anyone have experience buying centerpieces from anyone in the Flower district? Do you know if they deliver to places like Santa Ynez?<br /><br />Thank you for your help!<br />trina <br />]]>
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        <title>1st Wedding gift...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706900/1st-wedding-gift</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 20:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>xxquemirasxx</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I had to share...<br /><br />So Friday to our surprise UPS calls FI and is asking him to buzz him in he is like well what do you have cux we haven't ordered anything. <br /><br />He said its from Williams Sonoma. It was a gift from my Aunt in New York. I was soooo happy to get our 1st gift <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /> and in the mail!!! It was the beautiful rice cooker I asked for I couldn't believe it<br /><br />So I was also very happy because I sent my 1st Thank You note.<br /><br />Just had to share the good news!<br />]]>
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        <title>Wedding Items For Sale - Tablecloths and Wine Glasses - Gardena, CA</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/704171/wedding-items-for-sale-tablecloths-and-wine-glasses-gardena-ca</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 03:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>NjambiP</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I purchased too many wine glasses for wedding favors and would really like to get rid of them.  <br />  <br /> I also purchased 20 satin tablecloths, they were only used once.  The  have also been washed and would just need to be lightly pressed before  use.  Buy these from me and save hundreds!&nbsp; Instead of renting have the chance to resell  after your wedding! <br />  <br /> I will negotiate reasonable offers.  Below  are the quantities and the cost.  Would be willing to sell in smaller  quantities.   <br />  <br /> 80 wine glasses tinted blue  - never been used - $1 each <br />  <br /> 20 120" Round Satin Silver Tablecloths - only used once - $20 each<br /><br />Send me a message if you would like to see pictures.]]>
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        <title>Looking for Hacienda Brides</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/705993/looking-for-hacienda-brides</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 17:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>skcarter</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hey Knotties!<br /><br />My fiance and I are looking into having our wedding at The Hacienda in Santa Ana. The package is really afforadable and from pictures it looks pretty nice (we have an appointment to check it out in person next week).<br /><br />I was just wondering, is it too good to be true?<br /><br />I would love to hear from anyone who has gotten married there, been to a wedding there, or considered having their wedding there. <br /><br />Any advice that anyone can give about affordable wedding venues in Orange County or the LA area would be EXTREMELY helpful! I just received my "7 Months to Go" email from The Knot today! AAAHHH!!!<br /><br />Thanks in advance!<br />KGD<br />]]>
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        <title>Beach Venues in California</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707242/beach-venues-in-california</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 05:25:32 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>akavanagh</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I'm trying to find venues in southern California that have an ocean view and are reasonably priced. We are currently living just north of LA. At this point, my fiance and I rather not have our wedding directly on the beach. However, we still have not completely ruled out the idea. What are your suggestions?]]>
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        <title>dawnbeatty</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706548/dawnbeatty</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 18:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>garavito_16</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Just wanted to tel you that I really LOVE&nbsp; the picture on your siggy.&nbsp;]]>
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        <title>wedding dress</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707174/wedding-dress</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 04:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>Steph&amp;AndyS</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><br />Anyone interested in purchasing a wedding dress?&nbsp; Oleg Cassini size 6.&nbsp; Beautiful, beaded, A line.&nbsp; Never worn.&nbsp; </p><p><br />Let me know!</p>]]>
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        <title>Le Mystere</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707795/le-mystere</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 06:48:14 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>DetroitAG</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Has anyone tried the Le Mystere bustier?<br />Its very pricey, but I am thinking about getting the bustier to hold up my bust in my strapless gown.&nbsp; Any thoughts/reviews?<br /><br />Thanks!</p>]]>
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        <title>Cake Serving Set...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/708459/cake-serving-set</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 23:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>xxquemirasxx</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[A simple task you would think...right?<div><br /></div><div>I was hoping to get an Alice in Wonderland but with NO LUCK&nbsp;<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cry.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /></div><div><br /></div><div>So maybe burgundy with some crystals....maybe I'm over thinking it...</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm trying to avoid "Things remembered" too expensive!</div><div><br /></div><div>Where do you think I could find a set and what price range should I be looking at?</div><div><br /></div><div>TIA!</div>]]>
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        <title>Jewelry District</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707645/jewelry-district</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:51:38 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>mosli</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[hi ladies!<br /><br />we're still on a hunt for FI's wedding band and were thinking of checking out the Jewelry District downtown on S. Hill street. Has anyone shopped arround there? Are the&nbsp; prices and selection better than your average mall jewelry store? <br /><br />tia!<br />]]>
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        <title>Where to take wedding gown to dryclean?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707385/where-to-take-wedding-gown-to-dryclean</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 16:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>banthorn</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi Ladies!<br /><br />I desperately need help.&nbsp; Any recommendations for dry cleaning places? and what is a reasonable price for a a formal church wedding gown (no beads).&nbsp; I am in Pasadena. <br /><br />Thank you in advance.&nbsp; My wedding is in 2 weeks and I am getting nervous!!<br /><br />Kay<br />]]>
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        <title>Church!!!!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707476/church</link>
        <pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 23:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>joeymich</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[How much does it usually cost to get married in Catholic Church?]]>
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        <title>why don&#39;t the Dessy website do normal sizes????</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/705741/why-dont-the-dessy-website-do-normal-sizes</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 02:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>Joyiu</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<div>Looking on the Dessy website they do the perfect  little pumps incase my feet hurt at the reception with a cute little bow for  only &pound;20 but the sizes are all half sizes, i've checked the other pumps they do  and they are the same <br /><br /><a href="http://www.theweddingstyle.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.theweddingstyle.com/</a><br /> </div>]]>
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        <title>honeymoon to Ireland finally booked</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706257/honeymoon-to-ireland-finally-booked</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 15:06:36 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>Mellie35</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We got married in May but could not take an extended honeymoon because of our work schedules. Plus, I let my husband pick the destination and he was going to plan everything and surprise me. At the wedding, he announced it was going to be Ireland! I was so excited. Well, as of this morning, (it only took him three months) the trip is planned. We are going to Ireland in October!]]>
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        <title>Knottie GTG Roll Call...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/704334/knottie-gtg-roll-call</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 08:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>nikojamm</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Alright Ladies,<br /><br />As we are a week away, here is the info and roll call so far...<br /><br />When:&nbsp; Fri. Aug 13<br />Time:&nbsp; 6 pm (or when you can get there)<br />Place:&nbsp;  The Office, Burbank <br /><a href="http://www.theofficeburbank.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.theofficeburbank.com/</a><br /><br /><br />msmerymac<br />ktrntrry<br />FutureMrs.JT - ?<br />monet7383<br />gamingangel<br />princessa<br />nikojamm<br /><br />Reply if you think you'll be able to make it!&nbsp; I can't wait!!!<br />]]>
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        <title>Siggy help</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/704309/siggy-help</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 18:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>garavito_16</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I've been trying to update the wedding ticker and I everytime I hit save it gives me an error report. Is anyone else&nbsp; having problems with the "Update Signature" feature?]]>
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        <title>Bite size menu?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/704306/bite-size-menu</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 02:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>adeyer</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Does anybody know of an inexpensive caterer or personal chef to do a bite size hors d'ouvres menu during my cocktail hour? I can't seem to find any cheaper than $15 per person.]]>
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        <title>AW:b-pics got blogged...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707517/aw-b-pics-got-blogged</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 23:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>xxquemirasxx</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[So I thought I would be totally embarrassed showing them...but I'm actually kinda proud<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /><div><br /></div><div>I DIY'ed my hair and make-up and I have to say Ashleigh rocked!!!! She is amazing and I couldn't be happier<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /></div><div><br /></div><div><a href="http://ashleightaylorblog.com/" rel="nofollow">http://ashleightaylorblog.com/</a></div><div><br /></div><div>It's all coming together...sigh</div>]]>
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        <title>Venue in Orange County CA?!?!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707468/venue-in-orange-county-ca</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 16:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>Bterfly112</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi Ladies!<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I am in a friends wedding and we are looking for an affordable, classy venue in the Orange County area.&nbsp; Any and all suggestions are welcome!!&nbsp; Thanks so much and happy planning!<br />]]>
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        <title>Zazzle Invitations</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706320/zazzle-invitations</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 13:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>gmjpeach</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi all!<br /><br />FH and I are picking our invitations, and found some we really like on Zazzle.&nbsp; I wanted to see if anyone else had ordered from here, and how it looked and how the quality was.&nbsp; If anyone has actual photos of their invites from Zazzle, I would love to see them before I order the sample (as the smallest amount is 10).&nbsp; <br /><br />We are looking at something thats a solid color, so I am not sure how the quality will be, as the color would be printed on white/whiteish paper.<br /><br />Thanks!<br />]]>
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        <title>OK Gals! GTG is set!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707809/ok-gals-gtg-is-set</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>nikojamm</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Here it is:<br /><br />When:&nbsp; Fri. Aug 13<br />Time:&nbsp; 6 pm (or when you can get there)<br />Place:&nbsp; The Office, Burbank <br />(I'll post the link as we get closer)<br /><br />Hopefully we can get a bunch of us together!&nbsp; It will be so much fun!<br /><br />Let's get a list of Knotties that think they can make it:<br />]]>
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        <title>Officiant Dilemma!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706898/officiant-dilemma</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>xxquemirasxx</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Ok Ladies I'm in a pickle here...<br /><br />The person we had initially asked to marry us can NO LONGER do it. I'm trying to remain clam....{{{breathe in....breathe out}}}<br /><br />We are 2 months from wedding day.<br /><br />I have NO CLUE what an officiant cost...I'm so nervous of the fact that everyone will be booked because it's soooo close to the date.<br /><br />FI is trying to see if maybe we can get a friend or family member to be ordained and do it...and if that doesn't work then we need to pay someone which honestly is the last thing we need. <br /><br />The bank acct is getting smaller and smaller as the day approcahes...<br /><br />Suggestions...recommendations? HELP please!<br />]]>
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        <title>**Dawn**</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/706420/dawn</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 15:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>Vans18</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[So funny! I also went to SV c/o 2000! Go Dons!]]>
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        <title>A DIY GTG!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/708396/a-diy-gtg</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>Vans18</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hello girls!<br /><br />So I know we've mentioned having a DIY GTG before but we have not done it, so I was thinking its about time!&nbsp; I'm up for helping all you knotties who&nbsp;need help on any&nbsp;DIY projects for your wedding.&nbsp; Us "married hags" can give you a hand and make this GTG beneficial :) <br /><br />We can do it at my mom's house, located in Baldwin Park (SGV), I'm sure she'll have no problem having us there. Also I was thinking the weekend&nbsp;of September 11th, before summer ends. <br /><br />So what do you ladies think? Are you in?]]>
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        <title>Engagement session venues?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/708124/engagement-session-venues</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 05:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>katrinakim</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Hello Knotties! <br /><br />Would love any suggested engagement session venues. :) Ideally, we are looking for a formal/manicured garden. We are getting married close to the beach and celebrating our reception in a ballroom -- so we felt an outdoor, garden setting would help set our e-photos apart from our wedding photos.<br /><br />Greystone Mansion and the gardens at Langham Pasadena have the feel that we are going for... but I'm not sure that either allows e-sessions.</p>]]>
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        <title>FH too involved? Is feeling irritated normal?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/707302/fh-too-involved-is-feeling-irritated-normal</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 14:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>California-Los Angeles</category>
        <dc:creator>gmjpeach</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Vent!<br /><br />My FH and I had a fight yesterday because I bought some stuff for the wedding without asking him his opinion.&nbsp; They are for the centerpieces!&nbsp; Keep in mind, we have a strict $10,000 budget for 175 guests, so I was going to use a combo of free centerpieces at our reception site, spruced up with some water light cubes and a few purple clear rocks.&nbsp; I spend $100 (in the budget) for this stuff, and he freaked out yesterday.&nbsp; I sware we had several conversations about it (because free+$100 for 20 centerpieces is a freaking steal).<br /><br />On top of that, I had discussed with him a cake toper, either the initials or a crystal engraved heart with our names and the date.&nbsp; He said he liked the crystal better than the monogram, so I bought it (for $14.96 including personalization), and yesterday, he tells me that was not an approval to use it.<br /><br />I was apologetic yesterday, but the more I think about it, the madder I get!&nbsp; He says he wants to be involved and have an opinion, but when I say its time to go to LA to buy stuff, or meet with the florist, or address the Save the Dates, he complains and wants to stay home and not be involved.&nbsp; Them when I do things without him, he gets REALLY mad!<br /><br />I love my FH, and we have been together a long time.&nbsp; But as it gets closer (we are 116 days away as of today) he is starting to irritate me.&nbsp; He never gets mad, and in 6 years, I can count the times he is mad and we fight under ten.<br /><br />Is this normal?&nbsp; Stress of the wedding?&nbsp; What should I do?&nbsp; I think if I bring this up again, he is only going to get mad all over again before hearing me out.<br /><br /><br />]]>
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