New York — The Knot Community

Selling Wedding Date at 25% (-$13k) Discount

knottie3484bde4a1461f20 — Sat, 01 Feb 2025 03:18:33 +0000

Hello,

Due to personal circumstances, my fiancé and I are unfortunately unable to proceed with our wedding plans as originally intended. My fiancé’s father recently passed unexpectedly, and we are in a period of grief and assisting her mother financially. As such, we are offering a 25% discount (negotiable) on the buyout of our wedding event contract in the Catskills.

The buyout includes the full transfer of all arrangements made for the event, including the venue and catering. As we have been otherwise inundated with end-of-life planning and funeral arrangements, we do not have any vendor contracts, leaving the buyer free to choose vendors, photographer, and DJ. We would prefer to find someone who can make use of these pre-booked services, rather than let them go unused.

Details:

Original contract value: $[50,642.08]
Discounted buyout price: $[37,981.56] (25% off - Very Open to Negotiating)
Event date(s): June, 2025

If you're interested or know someone who is looking for an exceptional wedding package at a reduced rate, please reach out to discuss further details.

Thank you for your understanding and consideration during this difficult time.

For inquiries, please contact me privately.

North Fork Hotel Blocks

lmarques34 — Wed, 25 Oct 2023 02:31:46 +0000

Hi! My fiancé and I really love Peconic Bay Yacht Club. However, we are worried there won't be enough accommodations. We are looking to set an April or May 2025 date for 150-160 guests. I heard that some hotels in Greenport/Southold etc. only allow you to block 10 rooms. Can anyone share their experience with this? Thanks in advance!

Confused between choosing Engagement Ring

jacksteave — Fri, 25 Nov 2022 08:53:11 +0000

My one friend brought a Moissanite Engagement Ring and another one is having a Diamond. Both are telling me the pros and cons like Diamond is first in hardness scale, Moissanite gives much better brilliance, and Fire then moissanite. Moissanites are affordable and all. So now I am confused about choosing an Engagement Ring. Though it is not for me it is for my brother's wife but as I am an older brother so it is my duty to let them know what will be best for them a Moissanite or a Diamond Engagement Ring.

NY Brides Should Get Marriage License Appointment Ahead of Time

knottiea1995e7a24adee6f — Fri, 31 Jul 2020 19:07:39 +0000

I visited the Marriage License website a few weeks ago and found out that I can get the license by virtual appointment. "Whoa! That was simple!" I thought. I decided that I was in no hurry to register since the marriage license was valid for only 60 days. WRONG!

LESSON: Register ASAP and see what appointment dates work for you. Do not want until the last minute because availability is limited during the pandemic.

The process seemed easy at first. It took me about 30 minutes to put everything together.

And I arrived at the step to schedule a meeting with the City Clerk. I was surprised to see only one slot in August, which was gone as I clicked on it. Then another slot in August came up but, again, was gone before I could confirm. And then I see no availability in August, not in September, not in October... (The website does not provide availability beyond October when I checked on July 31.)

I was puzzled as I clicked and clicked and it finally hit me that I may not be able to get married as planned because of this. I was in full panic mode. I googled and found out that the appointments were booked through September in a news article dated May 24. May 24!!!

I tried calling the office but no one answered. I clicked on the "report an issue" button of the website and sent a message. And for the next 20 minutes I was in full beast mode refreshing the website, my mouse clicking like a woodpecker... I eventually was lucky enough to get an appointment. So if you are in a similar situation like me, keep trying and good luck!

No one needs this kind of stress a month before the wedding...

Port Jefferson COVID-19 Venue

wallacelovellwedding — Fri, 10 Jul 2020 21:31:32 +0000

My catering hall which is located in Port Jefferson, Long Island (the same company actually owns two in Port Jefferson and they are building a new one in Centerport) just told me that they are declaring themselves a restaurant so that they can hold events of up to 200 people which is 50% capacity rather than following the guidelines for social gatherings in New York which only allow a maximum of 50 people. I am worried about the health of my guests since I have a 150 person minimum but the catering hall is not offering to refund my money even though they will not be permitted to have any dancing, not even a first dance with me and my future husband. Anyone else in a similar situation?

Sunday April 4th, 2021 Opening at Premier NJ Venue

knottiee115fc7b64a715a9 — Tue, 02 Jun 2020 21:58:34 +0000

Dear Brides,

I am looking for someone to take over my wedding date on Sunday April 4th, 2021 at a Premier NJ Venue. Please DM me here for more details. Thank you all in advance!

Bridal Dress Woes and Pros ?

alipoohpooh95 — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 21:48:43 +0000

Hey all,

To all my newlyweds, brides and brides to be, I am contemplating on buying my dress 2nd hand but with no idea where to start or where to begin. I have searched here and there buy I do not want burn a hole in my pocket based off an emotional whim. (Gotta keep the reins tight). I do have time to search and I am sure I can find something reasonable, but I just need some support and advice from y'all if you can. So my questions to you are..

Would you buy your dresses 2nd hand online or would it be better to experience such in person ?
How much in your opinion, should one spend on a 2nd hand dress ?
If you've had experience buying a 2nd hand wedding dress, how was the experience ? Was it good ? If not how could it of been better ?
Any tips would be of great help...
P.S, Ya girl lives in NYC, so as you can imagine the cost of a dress here can be astronomical...

Unaltered designer gown 1/2 price

Knottie1467831720 — Tue, 11 Apr 2017 01:13:55 +0000

I purchased the Kelly Faetanini "jill" dress for over 4K at Gabriella in Soho, then changed the "vibe" of my wedding. It's brand new, unaltered, this season line. Will sell for $2500. It's a bridal size 10 in the off white color. Email me for details!

Skaneateles - The Lodge At Welch Allyn

Knottiea3cfa9579f72b16c — Sat, 07 Jan 2017 21:55:26 +0000

Hi there! Has anyone had or been to a SMALL wedding at The Lodge? We think it's gorgeous but are concerned it might actually be too large a space considering we may only have 50 guests (including ourselves and the wedding party). There's another smaller venue we like as well, but the other venue can't host the ceremony and we're having an impossible time to find a separate ceremony location for the month we want. Just wondering if anyone has experience with 50 person wedding at The Lodge and if it worked well or if the space felt too big.

Are you using paper or online invitations? + Get an invitation coupon code!

KnotRiley — Tue, 12 May 2015 14:00:54 +0000

Hi Knotties!

We want to know what’s really trending these days. What type of invitation will you or did you use for your wedding?

Will you use a traditional invitation, like this one from Wedding Paper Divas?

Or will you go the paperless route and send out online invitations, like this one from PaperlessPost.com?

Let us know below!

P.S. Anyone who responds before May 29th, 2015 will be sent a 20% off Wedding Paper Divas coupon!

We love this New York couple’s flowers! What do you think?

KnotRiley — Mon, 04 May 2015 14:52:56 +0000

Hi Knotties!

This bride, from Auburn, NY, went with a dried wildflower bridal bouquet.

What do you think of her bouquet? We’re looking for Knotties’ top choices for florists in your area. If you’re already married make sure you post below who you used (and loved!).

If you’re still searching for the perfect florist, check out other Central New York brides for more inspiration!

Who's your favorite band or DJ in your area?

KnotRiley — Fri, 27 Mar 2015 14:35:59 +0000

Hi Knotties!

In honor of our new Top 10 Wedding Songs for 2015 list, we want to know: Are you going with a band or a DJ? If you’ve already hired your musicians or DJ, tell us who it is in the comments below to help give other local Knotties some great ideas and referrals.

Oh, and if you’re getting close to the date and you’ve already made your must-play list for the reception, head over to our Wedding Music Board to share!

Indoor location for wedding photos in Rochester, NY

mrandmrsesq — Wed, 11 Feb 2015 15:35:43 +0000

My fiancé and I are getting married in July and have already planned our desired outdoor locations for wedding pictures. We would like to have a few back-up indoor locations in case of rain.(*fingers crossed that we won't have rain!*). Our reception is at the Rochester Yacht Club and there really are not many places inside to take pictures. Where have others taken indoor photos? Any ideas or suggestions for easy places?

PS. I have heard about the Monroe County Office Building Atrium but that is not a possibility for us as our photographer is not a Monroe County resident, which is required to get a permit to take picture there. Any help is appreciated!

Florist Recommendations in the Troy/Albany area?

tori0012 — Fri, 30 Jan 2015 02:22:13 +0000

Hi everyone...

Finding a florist is the main thing left to check off my list and I'm having a difficult time. I have a pretty small budget, but even getting the florists to return my calls/emails is proving to be rather difficult. Does anyone have a florist they would recommend in the Troy, NY area? I'd be open to anywhere around the Capital District. My budget is around $500 and I'm looking for 5 bouquets (mine and 4 bridesmaids), 9 bouts, and 2 wrist corsages for the moms. Like I said, I realized my budget isn't huge, but I'm not looking for anything too big or over the top. I'd so appreciate any suggestions or advice!! Thanks!

Caterer For Canfield Casino Wedding

kik12 — Wed, 25 Sep 2013 18:14:23 +0000

We are getting married next August at the Canfield Casino in Saratoga. I am having difficulty finding a caterer within a reasonable price given we have roughly 250 people attending. Does anyone have insight into some people I should call or a creative way to have food, but not spend a fortune? We are not willing to budge on the bar as that is important to us, but for the food we just want simple, edible and not a sit down.

NY Officiant Licensing/ Guidelines

xx802xx — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 23:17:23 +0000

My fiancé and I have asked a friend to preform our ceremony for us and be the officiant. Where can I get the best information for the state of NY (and/or if Albany county has specific regulations re: ceremony guidelines) to make sure that our friend is correctly licensed to marry us in NY and the ceremony includes anything that may be necessary for a wedding NY/ Albany?

Ceremony Venue in Utica, NY area?

benaisy3 — Tue, 06 Jan 2015 00:36:35 +0000

Any recommendations??

Glen Iris Inn Letchworth State Park

[Deleted User] — Mon, 17 Nov 2014 22:02:11 +0000

Has anyone had any experience or have had their wedding at Glen Iris Inn at Letchworth State Park in Castille NY? If so..what was the TOTAL cost? We are looking into a garden tent, with a dinner buffet, 3-4 hours open bar...120 people...It looks reasonably priced but there are so many la carte choices it seems to add up so quickly! Any help will be greatly appreciated, it is such a gorgeous location...Thank you!

The Sagamore Resort Salon Services?

mrsjmp — Thu, 03 Apr 2014 11:58:50 +0000

Hey Ladies,

Just wondering if anyone has ever used the salon services(hair and/or makeup) at the Sagamore Resort in Lake George, NY? Good, bad??? I have seen very little reviews online and I was just seeing if there was any personal experiences out there? Trying to figure out how to get ready for the big day!

Thanks in advance

DOC in Saratoga Springs area?

AJKoivisto84 — Fri, 19 Sep 2014 20:09:34 +0000

Hi there... newly engaged and starting to find our vendors. I'm looking for a DOC for a SMALL wedding in Saratoga Springs. I've done the internet research and know what options are available that have a web presence. I just figure it couldn't hurt to also reach out and see if anyone's got some word of mouth recommendations! Anyone work with someone they love/loved?

Thanks!

Wedding Venues on a Budget in the Finger Lakes Region

msoregano — Wed, 13 Aug 2014 00:02:43 +0000

Hi, I'm looking for venues on the lower end of the price range in central NY. Any suggestions? Inexpensive wineries/barns? One of the requirements is that we're looking for a place where we can stay partying past midnight.

I am aware of The Barn in Ithaca, which is within our budget at $2500, but they ask loud music be turned down at 11. I'd love to do a state park or pavilion, but so far the ones I've seen have had a noise/time limit.

Thanks in advance for understanding that I'm only interested in venue suggestions.

Barn Wedding in CNY

katefoland — Sun, 14 Jul 2013 23:29:04 +0000

Does anyone know of a barn or rustic venue in the Syracuse, NY area?

Albany, NY area AFFORDABLE venues

Knottie15764802 — Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:37:42 +0000

Hi All! I'm newly engaged trying to find an affordable venue in the Albany, NY area for our ceremony/reception. I'm trying not to go over $8000 for the reception (including catering, tables, chairs, bar). Any suggestions?

Rochester Dance Clubs?

bitofrits — Wed, 07 Aug 2013 02:16:24 +0000

Hi all,

Can anyone suggest a good dance club in the Rochester area? My friend's bachelorette party is THIS weekend and the maid of honor just sent me an email asking for some ideas... (unfortunately I live in Syracuse and not Rochester, so I don't really have a clue).

Please help -- thanks!

Ithaca Farmer's Market

cmsenecal — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 18:56:00 +0000

Hello! Is anybody planning or already planned their wedding at the Ithaca Farmer's Market? If so, any advice on making it happen. I love this venue, but want to make sure it's "doable". I'm planning from Montana, but have a lot of family in the area. What vendors are you using? DIY or planner? Any advice would be wonderful.

Thank you!

for sale! Maggie Sottero Ambrosia, size 6 in Alabaster

daisydog8 — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 03:33:43 +0000

I'm selling my Never Been Worn Maggie Sottero Ambrosia dress. This dress is size 6 in Alabaster. I fell in love with another Maggie gown and I would like to sell my dress. It has never been altered and still has the tags on it. Please let me know if you're interested. I would like 1,000. I paid over 1,600 for it:)

David's Bridal - Syracuse NY Advice

duhitsd — Sun, 16 Mar 2014 13:06:58 +0000

If you are going to go wedding dress shopping at the David's Bridal on Erie Blvd in Syracuse, ask for Shannon. She helped me purchase my gown yesterday and she is AWESOME. I didn't feel pressured into making a purchase and she was so sweet. I've heard a lot of bad stories about David's Bridal so I wanted to share the wonderful experience I had yesterday.

I tried on dresses in the morning at David's and did not make any decisions. My family and I went to lunch and had an appointment at Spy Baby Bridal in the afternoon. Every dress I tried on I kept thinking about that first one so I knew it was the one. I went back to David's at around 3pm and it was a ZOO. My mom went to see if the dress we wanted was still on the floor so I could try it on again. Shannon spotted her and even though she was busy with two other brides, she got one of the assistant managers, Di, who found me a fitting room. I rang the bell and went home with my dress since it was on the discontinued rack and was a super awesome price.

If you are thinking about going to David's Bridal in Syracuse, I would absolutely recommend Shannon.

rustic/barn/country venues

cntrygrl0315 — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:01:48 +0000

so i really hope that ya'll can help me out. our ideal wedding date is set for 5/10/15 and we having a really hard time finding a rustic/barn/country venue where you can also have the ceremony, for less than 50 people. with out paying a boat load of extra money just because we don't have 100 guests. willing to travel about 2 to 2.5hrs from buffalo ny or cowlesville ny.

Crystal Cove - Averill Park

moregannon — Sat, 17 May 2014 22:17:14 +0000

I'm looking at Crystal Cove for a potential wedding venue. We've read some older reviews that mentioned lack of organization...does anyone have any recent experience with them?

Moved wedding from june 2015to apri 1st 2015, vendors giving me a runaround about off peak prices.

hisnikkie — Wed, 14 May 2014 17:38:47 +0000

This is my second wedding. I have worked in the bridal industry as well 10 years of marketing and such. I know how this all works. The vendors I WAS considering for my wedding (dj +karaoke *yeah* I like to sing and so does everyone else plus it's april fools day) uplighting, a bakery for our cake, photography, flowers, photobooth, are all trying to tell me it's the same price, when I know off peak is slightly cheaper. Plus our wedding is going to be on a WEDNESDAY! So I doubt a lot of these vendors have much going on wedding wise on a WEDNESDAY.

I live in Syracuse, wedding will be in Syracuse, and recommended vendors who will not give me the run around telling me its basically the same price? Or tips on excellent vendors at good prices? Thanks!

New York — The Knot Community

Selling Wedding Date at 25% (-$13k) Discount

North Fork Hotel Blocks

Confused between choosing Engagement Ring

NY Brides Should Get Marriage License *Appointment* Ahead of Time

Port Jefferson COVID-19 Venue

Sunday April 4th, 2021 Opening at Premier NJ Venue

Dear Brides,

I am looking for someone to take over my wedding date on Sunday April 4th, 2021 at a Premier NJ Venue. Please DM me here for more details. Thank you all in advance!

Bridal Dress Woes and Pros ?

Unaltered designer gown 1/2 price

Skaneateles - The Lodge At Welch Allyn

Are you using paper or online invitations? + Get an invitation coupon code!

We love this New York couple’s flowers! What do you think?

Who's your favorite band or DJ in your area?

Indoor location for wedding photos in Rochester, NY

Florist Recommendations in the Troy/Albany area?

Caterer For Canfield Casino Wedding

NY Officiant Licensing/ Guidelines

Ceremony Venue in Utica, NY area?

Glen Iris Inn Letchworth State Park

The Sagamore Resort Salon Services?

DOC in Saratoga Springs area?

Wedding Venues on a Budget in the Finger Lakes Region

Barn Wedding in CNY

Albany, NY area AFFORDABLE venues

Rochester Dance Clubs?

Ithaca Farmer's Market

for sale! Maggie Sottero Ambrosia, size 6 in Alabaster

David's Bridal - Syracuse NY Advice

rustic/barn/country venues

Crystal Cove - Averill Park

Moved wedding from june 2015to apri 1st 2015, vendors giving me a runaround about off peak prices.

NY Brides Should Get Marriage License Appointment Ahead of Time