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        <title>Late evening snack....which one would you want??</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216170/late-evening-snack-which-one-would-you-want</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2012 01:13:16 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Puglove23</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hello ladies :)<div><br /></div><div>I am trying to decide between three options for a late night snack at my end of September wedding and I would love your opinions! We are having a full dinner with apps and cake that will be over at 7pm. We have the option to bring out one of the following later in the evening: Mini burgers and fries, ice cream sundae bar, assortment of cookies with milkshake shooters....which would you want and why?? As a background, the ice cream bar is vanilla ice cream with multiple toppings and the cookies have four different flavors( choc chip,peanut butter, oatmeal raisin, white choc macademia nut)...Thanks!!!</div>]]>
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        <title>A few general food/service questions.. Would love your opinion!</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2012 21:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Lolagirl2012</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><span>1. Champagne toast.. skip it or have to have? I plan to have champagne as a beverage option all night (this is my beverage of choice at wedding) but the rental costs of the champagne glasses and the extra bottles for a formal toast is much higher than I thought.</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>2. We are doing a buffet dinner and we can't decide whether or not we are doing a plated salad or having the salad as part of the buffet. Our salad station would look like this: <br /></span></p><p><span><br /></span></p>    <p><span>Mixed Greens, Spinach and Arugula</span><span> with roasted pears, gorgonzola, red peppers, grape tomatoes, dried cherries, toasted walnuts, all arranged in bowls with choice of dressings to include pear balsamic, herbed cr&egrave;me fraiche or other dressing of choice</span></p>  <p><span>If we did a plated salad, we would make up a salad with some of these items, minus the walnuts because of one of my BM's has a nut allergy. I can't decide, because I like all of these items, but I know others will not. I feel like it could speed up the process if we had a plated salad, but dinner could get started earlier if we didn't have one..</span></p><p><span><br /></span></p><p><span>3. Silverware, wrapped in cloth napkins and at the buffet, or set at the table? I didn't think of these, but they are things that my caterer has asked me.. <br /></span></p><p>Thank you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><span><br /></span></p>]]>
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        <title>Groom&#39;s Cake Toppers Question</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2012 15:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>mrsbiss2be</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>So, I was thinking about different ideas for a Grooms Cake, and since my FI loves zombie movies sooo much I thought it would be neat to make one for a surprise.<br />But here's my dilema...<br />I've looked around Ebay...Etsy...Google for random sites and can't seem to find a site that sells the cake toppers at a reasonable price. They are all over $100 and I was hoping to find a set that wouldn't cost that much. <br />Anyone have any ideas where I could buy a set for a Zombie themed Grooms cake at a decent price? </p>]]>
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        <title>Tipping at a pre-contract tasting?</title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jul 2012 14:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>elliemonster2012</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We are going to a tasting tonight for a possible caterer at a local restaurant by our home and we have yet to sign a contract.<br /><br />Would you tip?&nbsp; First reaction is yes if we have a server helping us but if it is just the manager bringing out food, then no.<br /><br />What do you think??]]>
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        <title>food tasting vs. wedding day food</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/218270/food-tasting-vs-wedding-day-food</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2012 16:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>andra loves andre</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I'm a bit nervous with our venue's food. At the food tasting, I'd say that 20% of the food tasted good... the rest was pretty bland, or overcooked, or dry. I'm not a picky person and I usually eat anything, and my dad is even less picky than me (even ate my burnt pudding so I didn't have to throw it out, lol!) and even he didn't like some of the dishes! It's too late to back out now since we already gave them $5000, so that's not an option. I have read reviews and all of them raved about how good the food was, so I'm thinking that maybe the tasting just wasn't that great for us.<div><br /></div><div>In your experience, how did the tastings compare to the food served on the day of? Was it better, worse, the same?</div><div><br /></div><div>Thanks!</div>]]>
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        <title>How early to do cake tastings? Menu?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/218661/how-early-to-do-cake-tastings-menu</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2012 18:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Amsdragonfly</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Not sure if this has been asked before- didn't see it if it was- sorry!<div><br /></div><div>How early do you recommend doing a cake tasting? We have no idea what kinds of cake flavors let along fillings to choose to try. My friend who makes wedding cakes and is going to make ours says to take our time and pick anything out we can think of and she can make it for us to try but I feel like that is so broad- where to even start? I asked her but she said just think of anything!</div><div><br /></div><div>Also, on a related food topic, how early did all of you pick out your menu options? We just picked out our venue and the contract is being sent for us to look over, and this place is also really open about whatever we want them to make, they can make.</div><div><br /></div><div>So I guess overall the question is, how early do you do tastings, cement flavors/fillings, and cement a menu? If it helps, our wedding is Oct. 5th 2013, so a little bit over a year away.</div>]]>
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        <title>desperate!!!</title>
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        <pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2012 05:19:18 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Ashley&amp;Michael2013</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[i live in Colorado springs and so far our wedding planning has been very easy,which is great!!! but now i can't find any catering companies that don't cost $10,000 for 150 guess's max. any suggestions?]]>
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        <title>To serve alcohol, or not</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216264/to-serve-alcohol-or-not</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2012 05:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>GardenMaven</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I have been reading some of the post on here about dry verses wet weddings and it is not making my decision any easier. &nbsp;I do not want alcohol at our wedding or reception. &nbsp;My reason is that alcohol brings up bad emotions due to dealing with an alcoholic. &nbsp;Even the smell of alcohol repulses me. &nbsp;Both my fiance's family and mine drink when there is an event, so this is a very difficult topic. &nbsp;I don't think that my family would be upset, but I am not sure about my fiance's family. &nbsp;So I guess the question is do I please the crowd, or risk upsetting them for my own mental well-being? &nbsp;]]>
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        <title>open bar or run a tab?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/217880/open-bar-or-run-a-tab</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2012 03:49:11 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>soontobehasrouni</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[&nbsp;We are having our reception at a restaurant but arent sure if we should pay the alcohol package of an additional $35.00 per person or just pay by consumption? it is a small-ish destination wedding, we have invited 70 but dont expect that many to show. Not everyone are big drinkers. Our other option is to pay by consumption, but the prices are still high, 4.99 ofr budweiser and more for wine and liquor,<br /><br />Should we just buy the packages and hope the people who will drink more will make up for the non drinkers? or pay by consumption and only have limited options, like certain beers, wines, and a signature cocktail]]>
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        <title>fondant or silk fall leaves?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/217750/fondant-or-silk-fall-leaves</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 21:18:23 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>AngB1230</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[this is my wedding cake i want made. would it matter if i used silk leaves or fondant?&nbsp;<br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/10/3/ba3406ee-7db6-4c2b-932e-2b553d230c3d.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/10/3/ba3406ee-7db6-4c2b-932e-2b553d230c3d.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br />]]>
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        <title>Pure Kitchen Catering Chicago: Great Food, Terrible Service</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/217840/pure-kitchen-catering-chicago-great-food-terrible-service</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2012 23:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>lizziedwedding</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">Pure Kitchen Catering did not make us feel that their company really was determined to go above and beyond to make our wedding extraordinary. They made us feel like a smaller job, delegated to inexperienced staff, and that our legitimate concerns were not worth a proper, professional resolution.</span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">&nbsp;</span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">We heard from our guests that they were impressed with the food at our wedding; it surpassed their expectations. Sadly, the service did not surpass ours. Communication and day-of service was extremely poor. </span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">&nbsp;</span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">We chose Pure Kitchen because we felt that they understood our vision and passion for an innovative wedding meal. In the end, communication turned out to be the most important factor. We met with Joshua and Dan a number of times throughout our planning process, and I appreciated that they both attended these meetings. Communication outside of these in-person meetings, however, resulted in errors, delays, and excuses rather than solutions. </span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">&nbsp;</span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">1.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">Communication throughout our planning process was inconsistent and frustrating. When we first signed on with Pure Kitchen, they told us that new customers would get a 24 hour response time (which we did), and existing customers could expect a 48 hour response time. On average, it took our planner Dan 7 days to respond to any email, and those responses were usually prompted by a follow-up inquiry from me and started off with an apology and/or excuse. We tried very hard on our end to have everything decided and done at least one week ahead of time; it was incredibly frustrating to be haggling over a final $17 with 24 hours to go. </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">2.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">We would have appreciated an immediate greeting, and consistent attention. No one introduced themselves to us, or made a point to make sure that my husband and I had what we needed at all times. As the person in charge of the event, we would especially have appreciated a greeting, check in, or even a goodbye from Dan. We received none of the above: he waved to us from across the room after we sat down, and that was the last we saw of him all night. </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">3.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">The rest of the wait staff was courteous and helpful, and many of our guests commented on the friendliness of the bartenders. But when we and our parents sat down at our table, it took a good 5 minutes to place our drink order, and that was only after one of our guests flagged down a server at our request, and asked the server to come over to us. (The head table is kind of hard to miss.) </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">4.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">Dan promised me via email that he was waiting for final answers from the chef on some final questions we had about the ingredients for our food, based on our experience at the final tasting. These questions were never answered.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">5.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">We were also extremely disappointed that a vegetable dish was completely omitted. This wasn't a last-minute add -- it was one of our requests from the beginning. Not to mention, it was a dish that was quite meaningful to us, as part of our story! In fact, when we asked two separate servers when it was coming, each said it would be coming out shortly. It never showed up, and there has been absolutely no explanation as to why. </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">6.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">We were charged $6 per &ldquo;bowl&rdquo; of berries, which amounted to a ramekin per table. This was also supposed to be the non-gluten dessert option for our guests. </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">7.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">Our custom-designed cake looked awesome &ndash; if you overlooked the four fingerprints right in the middle of it. The cake sat out for hours on the dance floor. For anyone other than my husband &amp; I to have a piece, each guest had to carve it off for themselves. </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span><span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">8.</span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000;">The end of a wedding is a good time for someone from the professional side to look out for the customers, i.e. the bride and groom, and take just a little more time to make sure they go home happy. We were charged for to-go containers, but no one from the staff made certain that we left with any of our leftover food, and Joshua confirmed later that there had been extras. </span></span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">&nbsp;</span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span><p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">Our expectations were not met, and food that we pre-paid a good amount of money for was not served. We requested a refund, which Joshua promised he would look into. He then chose to pretend that we had forgotten about the whole thing. When we followed up, he promised a check would be in the mail shortly. That was the last we heard from Pure Kitchen &ndash; Joshua has not responded to any follow-up phone calls or emails since. This is our response.</span></p><span style="font-size: medium; color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span>]]>
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        <title>Family Style?</title>
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        <pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2012 07:55:43 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>emeejeeayen</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My venue offers buffet, plated or family style for the same price. They've assured me that with family style there are enough pieces of each item (8 people at a table = 8 pieces of chicken, 8 pieces of beef, 8 servings of veg pasta) so no worries on that.&nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>Any reason I shouldn't go with family style? I like the idea of people being able to have a bit of everything and talk to one another throughout the meal, but maybe there's an aspect I'm not thinking of.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Thoughts?</div>]]>
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        <title>DIY Catering Advice Needed</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/218540/diy-catering-advice-needed</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2012 20:37:39 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Byrrd</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Okay, my off-beat dolls, I need some suggestions. &nbsp;<br /><br />We've decided that due to EXTREME lack of funding, we're going to DIY our own catering.&nbsp; It drops the cost for food and beverage from over 5 grand to a much more manageable 1 grand.&nbsp; Folks have tried to talk me out of it with every single request for advice, but honestly, it is just not an option to hire a caterer.&nbsp; I've got it pretty well figured out though and I'm not scared.&nbsp; <br /><br />We're having a relaxed late-summer wedding at a local park with an enclosed picnic building.&nbsp; What better to serve than typical barbecue fare, right?&nbsp; Burgers and brats!&nbsp; Genius! <br /><br />So, the plan is burgers, brats, baked beans, raw fruit and veggies, chips, cookies, and cake. Easy enough.&nbsp; The only things that are warm are the burgers, brats, and beans.&nbsp; Our plan is to have everything cooked and prepared earlier in the day and then just kept warm until we serve them.&nbsp; We'll hire a couple of folks to make sure the buffet line is kept full &nbsp;<br /><br />My question is this- What's the best way to keep the stuff warm that needs to stay warm? The beans will be easy enough with crock pots and chaffing dishes, but how do I keep the meat warm enough to be safe for around 4 hours?&nbsp; I was thinking I could try large electric roasting pans set on low.&nbsp; But I am really unsure.&nbsp; I've never had to keep 100 brats and 100 burgers warm! We have access to electricity at the venue, but no oven.&nbsp;]]>
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        <title>Amount of cider needed for the toast</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/217144/amount-of-cider-needed-for-the-toast</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2012 00:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>staar987</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We are having a dry wedding and are looking into getting sparkling cider for our toast. Per bottle is 25.4 oz. Any idea how many guests what would serve? We are only having about 40 guests, so I don't think I'd need alot. I keep looking at water bottles to get an idea, but I'm still not sure. Thanks!]]>
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        <title>Glow-in-the-dark cotton candy</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216725/glow-in-the-dark-cotton-candy</link>
        <pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2012 03:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>duffmaker</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[... anyone want to split a case of these with me? LOL<br /><br />I'm seriously bummed, I saw this on Pinterest and it was such a perfect compliment to the candy buffet at our black, white and purple night time reception! The kicker? It isn't a DIY, it's a legitamte marketed glowing cotton candy stick that is only sold by 1 company for 1 quanity option... a case of 400 freaking sticks!!! I only need 90-100!! And I can't pay $500 to waste $300 + sticks :( I am so po-ed]]>
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        <title>Custom Cake Topper</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216076/custom-cake-topper</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 20:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>KCatanzaro</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My Fiance is dead set on a traditional bride and groom cake topper. Issue being he is half polish, half indonesian with a buzz cut. Any ideas on where I could find one that could work for him or allows personalization? &nbsp;Majority of the ones I see where you send in your own picture are cartoon like or bobbleheads. While it is a cute idea it just doesn't feel right for our event.]]>
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        <title>Hors D&#39;ouvres Only Reception</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216196/hors-douvres-only-reception</link>
        <pubDate>Sun, 10 Jun 2012 23:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>MrsBaldwin2012</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My fiance and I are getting married on December 1st of this year. &nbsp;Our reception is planned for 3pm to 8pm. &nbsp;We would like to have finger foods served from 4 to 7. &nbsp;Can anyone recommend a good (and reasonably priced) caterer for this type of reception in the South Jersey area (zip code 08086)? &nbsp;Any suggestions would be most appreciated!<br /><br />Thanks in advance!!<br /><br />~Chris~]]>
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        <title>Reception food: family cooking v. caterer?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216911/reception-food-family-cooking-v-caterer</link>
        <pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2012 18:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>lawgrl13</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My fiance and I want a wedding reception without all the frills and thrills.  We want something simple which doesn't require us to take out loans and which has a nice touch here or there, like a fun party favor, red velvet weding cake, etc.  We had considered our favorite bar, where we met, but it can only hold 60 people and there's no way we can do less than 83 people.  So we're considering other options.  We're not you're typical bridal couple, however: my fiance has his dream wedding in mind and I've never given stuff like this much thought. So I'm pretty flexible and my fiance is pretty set with what he wants.&nbsp; This includes having his cousin and aunt, who are professional chefs, cook for the reception.&nbsp; I've never met them nor tried their food, and they'll be coming from another country.&nbsp; My fiance wants to rent a big house by the shore for the reception and for our close family members to stay in.&nbsp; I'm okay with renting the house but I would like to have the reception catered so we don't have to worry about finding a place big enough for his cousin and aunt to cook, buying/renting glassware and dishes, finding enough food, etc.  Plus his cousin and aunt are coming to the US from another country, so I'm worried about whether something might happen with their flight and other uncertainties.  I look upon having his family cook for the reception as adding a lot of stress and he looks upon it as a lifelong dream.  I'm starting to be made out by him and his parents as the &quot;bad guy&quot; for not wanting things this way.  He and I have talked about how I'm more flexible with what we do and he's more set in what he wants, but how this is supposed to be our wedding, which means he needs to compromise.&nbsp; Any suggestions as to what we could do?]]>
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        <title>Caterers who specialize in Carribean Food</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jul 2012 14:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>dom922</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi Everyone!&nbsp; I am helping my friend with her August 2013 wedding and we are looking for caterers that specialize in Carribean food. (Perhaps Jamaican, etc...)&nbsp; Any recommendations in the Fairfield County or New Haven County area.&nbsp; Will even consider looking in NY.&nbsp; Any high recs...pls let me know.&nbsp; Happy Planning :-)]]>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2012 16:35:45 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BeamingBride22Be</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I am so excited about our cake tasting tomorrow! Is there anything I need to know before I go, or to ask our baker while we are tasting?<br />]]>
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        <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2012 21:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>hamsterdance</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We're having a veggie platter with celery, radishes, cauliflower, carrots, broccoli and cucumbers. Should we have ranch dip or hummus with it?]]>
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        <title>Possible Menu Idea. Help me complete it.</title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2012 12:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BecauseYouAre</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Throwing around Ideas at the moment, one is a lobster bake/pig roast this is what I've come up with so far.<div><br /></div><div><div><div>Passed Apps:</div><div>Shrimp Cocktail</div><div>Deviled Eggs</div><div>Corn fritters</div><div>BBQ chicken Lollipops&nbsp;</div><div>Cranberry, Walnut and Brie in puff Pastry</div><div><br /></div><div>Stations:</div><div>Crudities and Dips</div><div>Chowder Shooters</div><div><span>	</span>New England Clam</div><div><span>	</span>Chicken Corn</div><div><span>	</span>Fire roasted vegetable</div></div><div><br /></div><div>Dinner:</div><div>Roasted whole Pig</div><div>Lobster, clams, muscles, shrimp</div><div><br /></div><div>Sides:</div><div>Corn on the cob</div><div>Potatoes</div><div>Onions</div><div>Braised Kale</div><div>Baby Squash, carrots &amp; green beans in parsley butter</div><div>Cole slaw</div><div>Baked Beans</div><div>Caesar Salad</div><div>Biscuits</div><div>Cheddar herb biscuits</div></div><div><br /></div><div>Desserts:&nbsp;watermelon,&nbsp;strawberry shortcake and&nbsp;blueberry hand pies</div><div><br /></div><div>I need one or 2 more passed app ideas. I have no Idea what to do for a vegetarian option. Do I need to add a beef and or chicken option? Should I add macaroni and potato salad.</div>]]>
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        <title>ice cream sundae bar!! thoughts?</title>
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        <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2012 19:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>NurseCassie88</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[So both my fiance and I are HUGE ice cream fans and actually just spoke with a representative from coldstone catering who offered a competetivie price on a ice cream bar that would include 2 representatives to mix the ice cream in front of guests. we would get 4 ice cream flavors, 8 mix-ins, caramel chocolate and whipped topping and all the bowls and spoons we need. We were thinking of having this at the reception and sending the cake with our guests to go in doggy bags. What are your ladies thoughts?&nbsp;]]>
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        <title>How much booze?</title>
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        <pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2012 18:29:41 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>CarolineandDean</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[FI and I are providing all of the alcohol for our reception. &nbsp;We are having open beer and wine and then a signature cocktail. &nbsp;We are expecting 150 guests, and I'm not sure how much we should plan on purchasing. &nbsp;Also, do we get equal amounts of beer, wine, and our cocktail? &nbsp;Thank you so much for any advice!]]>
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        <title>Honest opinions!!  Disposable silverware?!</title>
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        <pubDate>Sun, 29 Jul 2012 17:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>lumilumi</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[When are disposable silverware acceptable for a wedding?&nbsp; How much will guests remember about the plastic silverware vs real china??&nbsp; <br /><br />My caterer offers an "elegant" dinner plate in white, silver plastic flatware, a plastic champagne flute and a good quality white paper napkin.&nbsp; For real china, it's additional $5 per guest.<br /><br />We will be serving a buffet style dinner in a ballroom.]]>
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        <title>Sides?</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jul 2012 17:13:53 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>stacywashington</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi everyone - we are having a sunset wedding in AZ next April - the ceremony will start at 7PM and then we are having the reception in our backyard about 2 miles away from the ceremony.&nbsp; <br /><br />We are having a very casual reception - only 40-45 people with close friends and family.&nbsp;&nbsp; Thus far we have decided on a Gourmet hot dog cart with chips,&nbsp; Wondering what other sides I could add to this that we can do inexpensively.&nbsp;&nbsp; Any suggestions? <br /><br />We are also having a cotton candy machine (per the FI) and making popcorn balls for favors with other candies. <br />]]>
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        <title>Station Buffet</title>
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        <pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2012 13:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>athomfor</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>We've decided upon a station buffet for our reception. To over simplify the situation my family owns a catering company which will be catering our rented reception at my parents house; the guest list is currently at 225. The catering company traditionally serves weddings- but has never put on a station buffet. We're not sure how many stations to have- 4? 5? The plan is also to have a plated salad served to each guest and a card detailing what is going on at each seat (as well as a more subtle announcement by the dj).<br /><br />So my questions are; How many stations for 225 guests? How long would you plan for a station buffet to last? Have you attended a station buffet- what was good/bad about it?<br /><br />Thanks!</p>]]>
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        <title>oops</title>
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        <pubDate>Sun, 29 Jul 2012 21:27:34 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>emeejeeayen</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I posted this in the wrong spot.]]>
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        <title>How to keep buffet food warm?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/218252/how-to-keep-buffet-food-warm</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2012 01:55:53 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>rks421</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We plan on having a buffet style dinner. We will be buying large pans of food from a local italian resturant near my home. The problem is WE have to pcik it up. Im worried the food is going to get cold really fast. Especially since the ceremony is at 4 and reception at 6- so we wont eat til about 630 or 7. Do those food warmers with the flame underneath really keep the food warm? Will it keep the top of the food warm or leave parts of the noodles and cheese hard? Any suggestions? Food is very important at any event and we really want delicious cheesy italian food that stays nice and warm! Thanks]]>
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        <title>Dessert Reception</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/216944/dessert-reception</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2012 20:21:46 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Wedding Cakes &amp; Food Forum</category>
        <dc:creator>momocarr</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[What does everyone think of having a dessert only reception and do you have any recommendations on what to have or not have?&nbsp; We're thinking of having our ceremony around 7:30 pm followed by our reception.&nbsp; We do plan on having beer/wine/champagne and&nbsp;a DJ with&nbsp;dancing.&nbsp; Thoughts?]]>
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