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        <title>Square 6&amp;quot; x 6&amp;quot; vases for sale!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/12923/square-6-x-6-vases-for-sale</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 07 Jul 2012 22:39:21 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>jakelem</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We have 18 brand new good quality square vases that are 6 inches by 6    inches.&nbsp; They can be used for beautiful flower arrangements, candles,    candy jars, or anything you may want to put in them for your wedding or    other festive event.&nbsp; They were 15 dollars and we are selling them for    10 dollars each.&nbsp; We live in upstate NY in the Binghamton area, but  we   can deliver to Syracuse, Rochester, or even Scranton PA areas.&nbsp;  Please   email me at jakelemecz@gmail.com if interested.&nbsp; <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />&nbsp; First come/first serve. Again - jakelemecz@gmail.com]]>
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        <title>Catholic Wedding Ceremony - music ideas?</title>
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        <pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 21:35:16 +0000</pubDate>
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        <description><![CDATA[Help! I am planning my Catholic wedding from a distance and am not able to meet with my ceremony musicians until just before the wedding. I need to decide on songs before then. Does anyone have suggestions on songs that can be played at a Catholic wedding from the prelude, to the processional, to the recessional? <br /><br />Thank you!]]>
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        <title>Small, Backyard Ceremony</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/11604/small-backyard-ceremony</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 07 Jul 2012 20:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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        <description><![CDATA[We are having an intimate, small backyard ceremony... give me some ideas! There will likely be 30-ish people (maybe less)&nbsp;in attendance.<br /><br />I still want to have&nbsp;an actual ceremony, though, just on a smaller scale. Like, processional with WP, music, etc. The vows will maybe last 5 minutes (won't be a religious service).<br /><br />Is this silly with such a small guest list? Should we just get right to the "I Do"? Give me your thoughts and ideas!<br /><br />]]>
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        <title>Birds of prey as ring bearer (owl, falcon,hawk)?</title>
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        <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 22:49:04 +0000</pubDate>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi there! Does anyone know where to get an owl or similar bird of prey (falcon, hawk) and handler to be a ring bearer? I saw this on t.v. and thought it would be neat in our Renaissance faire themed wedding (keep thinking of the owl Merlin in Disney's&nbsp;the Sword in the Stone). I am willing to look in Austin as well as all the areas on this side of the Texas&nbsp;map (San Antonio, the Valley, Dallas area, the Coast, Houston). If you know of anyone who would be willing please send me their link or info. This is very popular in Europe but have not found anything locally yet.<br />Thanks,<br />Kaylyn</p>]]>
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        <title>Which Would You Prefer?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/13966/which-would-you-prefer</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 13:25:14 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>bullfrogmama</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I'm looking to have my wedding in August. In WI where the humidity is usually terrible (what a great idea, huh? Lol). Anywho, my venue has a really gorgeous looking chapel, but it has NO A/C. The other option at the venue is to have the ceremony outside.<br /><br />Our ceremony will be 20 mins, tops. Would you prefer to be outside or in the chapel w/ no a/c?</p>]]>
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        <title>XP How many programs</title>
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        <pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 18:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
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        <description><![CDATA[I think we are going to expect around 115 guests...How many programs will I need for the church?<br /><br />I already know of at least 5 guests that can't make the church but are coming to the reception. and then I know that we don't really need one for like, my 16 yr old cousin.<br /><br />I was thinking 75...is that too few?]]>
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        <title>Male MOH</title>
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        <pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 03:46:20 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>TheFutureMrsFeehery</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hello everyone! I need ideas! My Maid of Honor is a Man of Honor. I was planning on having him walk down the isle just like everyone else, but he won't have a boquet. My fiance and his mother both want him to carry a flower. I think that having him carry one flower would look weird. Not to mention it wouldn't match anything else, because I'm doing babies breath for the rest of the flowers. Never the less, they want him to carry SOMETHING down the isle. Any alternative ideas that will not make him look odd?]]>
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        <title>Help combining clashing wedding traditions in an interfaith ceremony? (Catholic / Jewish)</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 15:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>rutherv</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi,<br />My fianc&eacute;e and I consider ourselves spiritual but not religious - however, we are trying to honor both Catholic (my side) and Jewish (his side) wedding traditions in our ceremony, because they're important to our parents. (Neither of our parents are particularly religious - but they're very attached to the wedding traditions they grew up with.)<br /><br />Unfortunately, some of these traditions are clashing and causing conflicts - wondering how other brides having an interfaith wedding are handling this?<br /><br />In a Jewish wedding, it's traditional for&nbsp;the groom and the bride to&nbsp;walk down the aisle accompanied by both of their parents; my fianc&eacute;e will be&nbsp;walking with his mom and dad. I think that's a lovely tradition and I asked my parents if they'd like to both 'give me away' too - since they've both raised me and I'm close to both of them?<br /><br />However, my dad is very attached to the Christian tradition of just the father walking the bride down the aisle, and my mom says she doesn't want to 'steal his thunder.'<br />I'm concerned that, if my fianc&eacute;e is accompanied by both his parents, but I'm just accompanied by my dad - my mom will look and feel very left out of the ceremony. My mom has voiced that she's concerned&nbsp;about this&nbsp;- but she still says she doesn't want to walk with me, worrying it would hurt my dad's feelings. <br /><br />I'm wondering if there are other ways that I could honor my mom and give her a special role in the procession as the mother of the bride, even if my parents want to&nbsp;stick to their father-only tradition? <br /><br />Also my parents are adamant about the tradition / taboo of the groom not seeing the bride before the ceremony. However, in the Jewish tradition, the couple signs the Ketubah in their wedding attire before the ceremony. Also, my fianc&eacute;e and I want to take pictures before the ceremony, since we don't think there will be enough time&nbsp;during cocktail hour. My parents are really upset about this - but I don't see any way around it, given the time limitations imposed by our venue.<br /><br />Does anyone have any creative solutions on how to handle stuff like this?<br /><br />I really, really appreciate any feedback!<br /><br />Thanks so much everyone! And good luck with your own wedding planning!]]>
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        <title>I have a &amp;quot;Here Comes the Bride&amp;quot; banner for ring bearer for sale</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/11816/i-have-a-here-comes-the-bride-banner-for-ring-bearer-for-sale</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 23:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I got married in May and am selling my Here Comes the Bride banner that my nephew carried down the aisle.&nbsp; The font is green and I have attached a picture.&nbsp;<br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/12/7/5cfb96b1-36a2-4039-97db-2b8dde2d4a97.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/12/7/5cfb96b1-36a2-4039-97db-2b8dde2d4a97.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a><br />&nbsp;I bought for 50, but am willing to sell for 25.&nbsp; Please email me if you are interested k-france@hotmail.com<br />Thanks! </p>]]>
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        <title>Opinions?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/12700/opinions</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2012 18:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>CandiPuff</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I'm thinking Aqua and Emerald or some form of green and blue, I haven't quite nailed it down yet. I really love liles too but I don't think they would work with my colours or the date. We plan on getting married early June 2014. :) Any ideas would be helpful. Thank You.]]>
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        <title>is this weird? HELP!!!!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/234535/is-this-weird-help</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2012 01:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Stinalove44</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[is it weird that i want traditional vows but i want to be able to more or less write them so they sound the way i want them too?&nbsp;<div>Im having trouble finishing them. i know what i want them to say and i have them mostly writen but im having trouble making it flow. this is what i have. any sugestions?&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I christina, take you james to be my lawfully wedded husband. I promise to love and honor you, through the good times and the bad. To laugh and cry with you, I pledge my fiath and love to you.</div><div><br /></div><div>I feel like there should be somthing else said between "to laugh and cry with you" and "i pledge my faith and love to you" but i cant think &nbsp;of anything that flows. please help.</div>]]>
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        <title>FYI Unity Crosses on Sale right now!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/13291/fyi-unity-crosses-on-sale-right-now</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2012 03:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>shayna25</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[just an FYI for anyone that is looking for an alternative to the unity candle or sand ceremony, unity crosses from&nbsp; <a href="http://shopinspiration.com/" rel="nofollow">http://shopinspiration.com/</a>&nbsp;are on sale right now, the plain white one is $115 down from $150. &nbsp;we ordered ours almost a year ago and I love it and can't wait to use it in our ceremony!]]>
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        <title>Just wrote my own vows! How do they sound? Any suggestions?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/234236/just-wrote-my-own-vows-how-do-they-sound-any-suggestions</link>
        <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jul 2012 01:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>jbn04110</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Sorry it's a bit long. <br /><u><br />A little background:</u><br />My fiance loves Seinfeld and vidoegames<br />I'm known in the family as a messy cook with an additute.<br />We're both known as "the funny" couple among all our friends. <br /><br />Here they are:<br /><br />  <p><span>Josh, the day we &ldquo;met&rdquo; didn&rsquo;t give off the greatest first impression. But that second time was certainly a charm. Although we were young, I felt my heart flutter- you could say it was love at first sight. I knew you were special- I knew because when I was down, you would lift me up, and when I was happy you would laugh with me- something you&rsquo;ve continued to do to this day. You&rsquo;ve taught me there can be people who love purely, live beautifully, and laugh daily (even if it&rsquo;s just at a Seinfeld joke). I look forward to many more years of holding your hand, sharing our hopes and dreams, standing by your side, and always being the sturdy pillar you may need to hold you up. In the musical words of Disney&rsquo;s Mulan, you&rsquo;re as tranquil as a forest, but with a fire within; you&rsquo;re a man- as swift as a coursing river, you have the force of a great typhoon, the strength of a raging fire, and (sometimes) are as mysterious as the dark side of the moon. I promise to love you eternally- with all my heart and soul. I promise to be your faithful partner, even when you want a &ldquo;Player 2&rdquo; to hold a controller by your side, or to hold your hand. I promise to walk with you in sickness or in health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse until the end of time. I also promise to clean up my dishes when I cook, let you hold the remote control every now and again, keep a cool head (no matter what my excuse may be), go on adventures with you without freaking out when we get lost, and scoop the cat box on trash day. I look forward to spending many years in our home with you, watching what children we may have grow and thrive, the world change and turn, and both our complexions become a little less smooth. I know our marriage will be as happy as can be, because admit it- we&rsquo;re two of the funniest people we know, right? This is just the beginning-we&rsquo;re stepping over the starting line and in the horizon is a new beautiful journey of life now shared by the main characters of our story: you and me until &ldquo;the end&rdquo;.</span><span></span></p>]]>
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        <title>Unity candle/sand ceremony necessary?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/13426/unity-candle-sand-ceremony-necessary</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2012 15:21:09 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>beckyh77</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We will be getting married in an ELCA church. I Have a hard time with spending money on a candle set or the sand vase things because what are you gonna do with them afterwards??? Would it be weird if we didn't have this tradition in our ceremony?]]>
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        <title>Mother of the bride...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/14346/mother-of-the-bride</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2012 08:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
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        <description><![CDATA[So, my dad passed away in 2007 and our relationship wasn't one where I would ask him to walk me down the aisle. However my Mom and I are very close so I am asking/have asked her to walk me down the aisle. Most Fathers get a boutonniere&nbsp;and Id like to do something similar for my mom, but I know I hate and she would too a wrist corsage.&nbsp;<div>Any suggestions?&nbsp;</div>]]>
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        <title>order of ceremony?</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/8336/order-of-ceremony</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2012 16:59:15 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>kymalibustacey</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We are getting married by a Judge that I work with. I want to do a sand ceremony but one of my friends is also going to do a reading from The Velviteen Rabit. What order shoud everything go in? Out wedding in many ways in not going to be tranditional. It's my first his third and we are both from down to earth people.]]>
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        <title>Uneven Bridal Party....any ideas on processional??</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2012 17:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>ncballer32</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Okay, so my Fiance has 5 BM and I have a MOH, no bridesmaids. I was trying to think of a way for&nbsp;us to do the processional as well as where to stand during the ceremony.<br />&nbsp;<br />My idea is that they all stand in the front and she is the only one to walk in, followed by me...kind of short procession, I think. Then I was thinking...his parents walk in...my parents walk in....MOH walks in...then I am escorted by my brother, who is also one of the&nbsp;BM. That would make it&nbsp;longer, but I&nbsp;dont want to pull away from my Dad walking me&nbsp;down the aisle. Decisions....decisions!!!<br /><br />Next...once&nbsp;we figure how to walk in...where should&nbsp;they stand???&nbsp; I grew up with all of the best men...so they are kind of all like my brothers and I wouldnt mind them standing on my side...just dont know how they feel standing on my side. My brother already agreed to standing on my side, with my sister in law (MOH).<br /><br />Anyway...any&nbsp;ideas are greatly appreciated!<br /><br />&nbsp;]]>
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        <title>Special Touch</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/11830/special-touch</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 21:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Shifsgirl</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[What special touch are you adding to your ceremony to make it different or stand out from the usual ceremony?<div><br /></div><div>My husband will be singing me down the aisle, but I would like to add a few other elements to the ceremony to make it more special!&nbsp;</div>]]>
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        <title>FI doesnt want to write his vows...</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/234341/fi-doesnt-want-to-write-his-vows</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 04:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>babe915</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I want to write my own vows because it is so much more personal, my FI could care less about writing them. What should I do? Would it be weird if I had my own vows to say and he did traditional ones?]]>
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        <title>Flower girl?!?!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/11936/flower-girl</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 18:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>APDSS22</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My fiance and I are debating having a flower girl.&nbsp; I think they're cute, but my family is really small and he's not close to any of his relatives with kids.&nbsp; On top of this, he's not completely sold on the whole idea of having a small girl-child in a dress throwing petals.&nbsp; Anyone got a great idea to solve my problem?]]>
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        <title>outedoor weddings</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/8379/outedoor-weddings</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 18:59:44 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>mrsbeaver2013</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I am trying to find a nice place for and outdoor wedding in the fall. The internet ain't giving me a lot of places in Central Pa around Lewisburg, mifflinburg area. If anyone has any ideas please let me know. Thank you.]]>
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        <title>Gray and White Striped Reception Table Cloth</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/11649/gray-and-white-striped-reception-table-cloth</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 13:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>kappa1024</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I am hoping someone will help me....I would really love to have gray and white striped table cloths for my reception. Does anyone know where I can find something similar to the one pictured below? My tables are 60" rounds so I would like to have the 72"x72" overlay in the stripes.</p><p>Thanks!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><img src="http://bios.weddingbee.com/pics/186410/grey_wedding.jpg" alt="HELP!  Grey/White Stripe Tablecloth :  wedding grey linen tablecloth Grey Wedding" /></p>]]>
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        <title>Both of my parents have passed and I need help! :*(</title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 17:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Beachbabi85</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone, <br /> </p>&nbsp;I got engaged about a month ago.&nbsp; I am marrying the man of my  dreams.&nbsp; I can not wait to be his wife.&nbsp; I am struggling with my  family.&nbsp; My father passed away in 2009 and my mother and I use to talk  about her giving me away and last year she passed away.&nbsp; They were the  most important people to me, and now they will not even be there.&nbsp; My  Fiances family has not been very welcoming, actually the opposite,  talking about me and disliking me.&nbsp; He obviously wants his family at the  wedding, and I am trying to be nice, but his grandparents have talked  bad about me, his parents and his brothers.&nbsp; Things are better with his  mom, but she is the only one.&nbsp; I know if my parents were alive they  would be so excited and no one in his family is excited.&nbsp; They are not  helping pay or plan ANYTHING and I have reached out SEVERAL times.&nbsp; My  parents would at least HELP pay and be involved.&nbsp; The sad thing is that  because my parents have been sick for so long before they passed, my  role was to take care of them, so I basically lost my friendships and  have not built any new ones yet.&nbsp; I always dreamed of my wedding with my closest friends and dreamed of dancing with my daddy.&nbsp;  I don't want to spend 30K for a wedding for his family but I also have  always dreamed of a wedding.&nbsp; I do not know what to do!!!! I don't want  to wait to marry the man I want to be with either.&nbsp; Any ideas?]]>
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        <title>beach wedding help!!</title>
        <link>https://forums.theknot.com/discussion/11871/beach-wedding-help</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 30 Jun 2012 00:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>kate mccue</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Hi!! we are looking to have a beach wedding with an outside reception  anywhere in central to south florida. any ideas or advice on planning a beach  wedding/reception would be great! we are trying to stay around 10000.00  and are open to restaurants, house rentals...just about anything as long  as its on the ocean!!! Thanks!]]>
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        <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jul 2012 23:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>atrem1115</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ladies,&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I am having a really hard time finding some good readings for my September wedding. I cant seem to find anything that isnt so religous or song/like. Just wondering if anyone has&nbsp; a website or anything in mind that they have found something that they like. We are both Catholic but we are not getting married in a church. We are having an outdoor wedding (short--about 30 minutes). Any suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks! </p>]]>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2012 03:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Krikin22</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My FI wants to have his older brother officiate our wedding. Some additional info:<div>FBIL has never done this before and we are not having a religious ceremony.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>When I mentioned this to my wedding planner she thought it might be a bad idea for these reasons:<div><br /></div><div>        <p>1. The&nbsp;rookie officiant gets extremely nervous and that takes away from him/her and your guests enjoying the ceremony..</p> <p>2. This is the most important part of the whole day, and having an experienced wedding officiant will be able to roll wih anything that could go wrong.</p><p>Did anyone have a friend or family member officiate? If so any regrets?</p><p>&nbsp;</p></div></div>]]>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 03:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>jdhegge</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We only have 82 days to go &amp; still haven't found a wedding officant we can afford.&nbsp; Our budget is $150.&nbsp; Anyone know who we could call in Colorado.&nbsp; We are not getting married at a church.&nbsp;]]>
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        <pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2012 02:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>CourtneyWarner</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My fi. and I have 2 boys.together and want to include them in our wedding as much as possible. they are 2 and going to be 3 months when we get married. I know they are young but to us its becoming a family rather then just a wedding. Any ideas would be awesome. I want them to light our unity candle with us and need to figure out a song to. play while we do this.]]>
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        <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jul 2012 23:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>KendraBP</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[We have a minister.&nbsp; We were planning on using his/our church building for our ceremony.&nbsp; But, he recently informed us that by the time of our wedding the church will no longer be meeting in that building.&nbsp; Any ideas for an October wedding (Columbus, OH) venue?<br />Thanks!!]]>
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        <pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2012 14:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>maryk2121</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<span>Hello,<br /><br />Recently got engaged.&nbsp; We would like to go away &amp; get married, just ourselves.&nbsp; When we get back, we will have a party to celebrate.&nbsp; We would like to married in the catholic church.&nbsp; Any suggestions?&nbsp; Fiance would like Rome.&nbsp; Has anyone done this?&nbsp; THANKS</span><span></span>]]>
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