She always says one thing and then does another.

1. I told her i wanted long tables from the begining, she says thats fine and she can totally do that, they have them. then she writes in the contract round tables, i correct her, she writes it somewhere else, i correct her again, she did that like 3 more times. I finally said to her, "Do you think i should do round tables or something?" and she says well, i have to order them if you really want them.. Like WTF> you told me you had them! I only need 3 and you should have ordered them the 1st 3 times i old you i wanted round tables. Like i think she was trying to see if i would over see it and she could just do round.

2. She tells me to rent the mics is $150. Ok then last week she told me oh they went down in price there $125. Great! Then she emails me today and tells me that the guy upped his price and now there $165! WTF again you just told me a week ago that they were 125.

3. She blew off a meeting i had with her, never showed. I drove an hour there with a toddler to meet with her and she never fucking showed. That one REALLY pissed me off. ( you make remember that rant)

4. I cancelled some ppl and in a result i over paid. She owed me $60. (her words) Then i add on a champagne toast and now some how i owe her $60?! No. Chapagne is $3 a glass, for 17 people. Its like 51 dollars. She still owes me 9 fin dollars.

Thats all i can think of right now.

She is really really pissing me off and with 9 days until the wedding theres not much i can do i dont think. Would you email the owners and complain? Now? After the wedding? I have done all my talking with her through email for a reason , so i have proff of everything she has tried to charge me off or f-ed up.

I feel like i should let them know.

This a new hotel (new owners leved it and rebuild) But she is not really new in the buisness She worked at a previous hotel with weddings before.

I AM SO MAD! I feel like i should do something about this before the wedding because im afraid she is going to like screw it all up.

Granted its only like 20 people. But still im paying almost 200$ a plate. Thats a lot of money to you be screwing up on.

I am now in the process of changing my name and it is easier than I thought. I pick my new SS card on tomorrow and had to the DMV after that. Only stayed in SS Office all of 5 minutes. I could not ask for anything more.

Also, we have about 20 rooms booked for Out Of Town Guests booked, and I want to have welcome bags with a welcome letter. It will have water, aspiring, snacks... anything else? What do you say in the welcome letter?

Thanks!

I'm so lonely right now and have been for the last week or so. I've got 9 days left till the wedding day and everyone and everything is driving me crazy - I cant take it much longer.

Is it just me?

- picked up shoes for my reception (wedges for an outside party). This is a big check because they were supposed to be in 3 weeks ago and I was getting nervous. I had called the store once being concerned and all i got was a "don't worry we'll call you when they are in." I called again today and spoke to a differnt associate, explaining that I needed to know if they would be in in the next week or I'd have to cancel and find new shoes. She was great and after some research called me back to say they had been in the store with someone elses name! So thankful that she took the time to figure it out for me!

- bought a little extra special skin-care products so that I'm glowing on the 18th

- blank cds for my ceremony music

- used some of our GCs from my shower to get a bike rack for our car so we can take our bikes on our honeymoon!

- 1/2 way done my 2nd-to-last DIY: fabric pennent bannars 

Still feel like a lot of little things to get into place and make sure physically MAKES it to the wedding... but I think I't doable! How are all you doing with last minute everything?