November 2012 Weddings — The Knot Community

bridesmaid dress

windcherry — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 03:20:55 +0000

Here's a thing. My maid of honor is sort of a Tomboy, I've never ever seen her wear dresses. She said she doesn't mind wearing it on my wedding day, but I know that's also because she doesn't want to "announced" that she's tomboyish. I partly understand, but I also want her to be more comfortable, be herself.

well..any suggestion for a proper bridesmaid "dress" for a short-hair, fun, humorous tomboyish gal?

Got My Shoes :)

lacey3eb — Sat, 18 Feb 2012 17:27:30 +0000

http://www1.macys.com/shop/product/marc-fisher-shoes-joey-peep-toe-pumps?ID=593714&PseudoCat=se-xx-xx-xx.esn_results

Hopefully they are as comfy as the reviews describe because I really don't wear heals often. I'll probably buy wedge flip flops to wear for the reception, but I wanted cute shoes for details pics. I can definitely see myself wearing them on fun nights out after the wedding if they are comfy, too, so they won't be one time shoes.

song to honor mother during ceremony?

Miss_2010 — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:49:03 +0000

Hi

My FI's mom passed away a few years ago and we were thinking about his niece singing a song to honor her while we light a candle for her in church.

Any suggestions?

9 months!!!

aloisk57 — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 16:55:29 +0000

I'm so excited - only 9 more months until I marry the man of my dreams!! I feel like I have nothing to do right now, though....everything is taken care of for now!! Anyone else bored in the planning process?

November and daylight savings time ... HELP!

hollytroup — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 15:13:24 +0000

Ok so i just recently got engagned over christmas. I have always wanted a fall wedding so trying to plan a wedding for October or November of this year. Most places are booked already for October. I am completely fine with having a wedding in November plus most places are cheaper in November but the other day i realized a huge dilemma of having a November wedding ... daylight savings time!!!! November is one of the darkest months! My fiance and are still deciding if we are going to have a church wedding or have the ceramony at the recption venue we choose.

SO for pictures what do i do???? I want outdoor pics but i dont want to see my fiance prior to we say our vows. Any advice? Anyone have a wedding in November and how did you work out the pics? Thanks!

Bought my wedding ring today!

mrszeno34 — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 22:17:26 +0000

I know its early, but I had to bring my e-ring in for 6 month cleaning and so we figured we'd just look... totally fell in love with a ring, of course it was totally different from what I'd imagined I'd get. But it's gorgeous AND it was a discontinued style so it was almost half off! It's not exactly this one below but very similiar.
Now I REALLY can't wait for November 10th!

lower ceiling

windcherry — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 20:25:15 +0000

My wedding place is going to be in a hotel, however, the ceiling isn't that high, and the lights they have are not so attractive. The wall is light brown. What would you suggest to lighten up the venue, if it's a 3-6pm cocktail reception.

I've only thought about having long candles, floating flowers & candles, what other decoration would make it more "open".

Thanks a lot!!

How's everyone's planning going? Anyone struggling with any particular part?

mrszeno34 — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 18:38:51 +0000

Hey there fellow November brides! Just wanted to see if anyone was struggling with any particular aspect of their planning, like I am... 2 areas really.
We have a lot of vendors books - photographer, videographer, venue, DJ, limo, tuxes, I have my dress, invitations are selected... but stlil don't have someone to marry us! We've met with a couple and "liked" both of them, but didn't necessarily have a wow moment. There were things about each that we didn't care for, and it's such an important part of the day, I'm having a hard time compromising until I find someone I truly mesh with. We are meeting with another woman next week... here's hoping!
The other piece is the bridal party gifts. I just DON'T KNOW!! I come up with an idea, make a decision, then go back on it! I know there's plenty of time for that but just having it hanging over me is adding stress!
How's everyone else doing?

Boudoir photo shoot

kantonik — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 20:16:39 +0000

So I mentioned a few months back that I had purchased a Groupon for a Boudoir photo shoot, that I was going to use for FI's wedding gift. Well, I had my shoot yesterday!!
It was such an amazing experience and I couldn't be happier with how everything went! My photographer was awesome, and she made me feel so comfortable and safe that I had absolutely no problems stripping down to my undies for her and the camera! I went in completely nervous and not knowing what to expect, that I almost cancelled my session a few times. But I'm so glad I didn't .
Also, I recently lost 25 lbs, so I'm still in that stage where I don't feel like I lost the weight and am uncomfortable with myself. But after seeing the pictures, I have gained so much more confidence. The photographer made me look so good!
If anyone is interested/thinking about doing this for their FI, I highly recommend absolutely doing it! If you're in the NYC/tri-state area, this is the photographer I used, and I can't praise her enough! http://www.boudoirbykoren.com/about-boudoir-photographer.html

She sent me home with a low-resolution CD of all my shots, but I can't wait to get my prints! Now all I have to do is find a way to hide them and keep it a secret from FI until the wedding!

Hello

H2love — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 14:33:44 +0000

Hello Ladies! My name is Tiffany I am new to this board.
We just moved our wedding date up it was originally May 11, 2013 and it is now November 3 2012. I am in the beginning phases of planning all I have is a possible venue which I hopefully get to put a deposit on next friday.

We got my wedding band! :)

stephie25 — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:45:23 +0000

It's way too early, but we got a great coupon from Blue Nile (where my ering is from) and went for it. I'm in love with it and can't wait to wear it :) The picture doesn't show it, but its SO sparkly!

Tried on some dresses! PIP

AlmostMrsStrong — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 03:29:52 +0000

First, the Bernadette by Maggie Sotero

Next, unknown dress by Allure:

I'm so torn between these. I love the simple shape of the second dress, but the open back on the first dress is divine. I'm going to try and slim down from in between a 12 and 14 to a true 12 by the end of the month and go try them on one more time before placing an order. What do you guys think?

Breakfast at Tiffany's theme

ramsaywedding — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 16:57:36 +0000

Hi everyone I need help deciding what kind and color of flowers I should get. I have the Tiffany and co color as well as black. My bridesmaids are wearing black. I want crystals included in everything as well I'm just not sure how. Please help!

New November 10, 2012 bride!!!

MGlassman15098 — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 00:40:23 +0000

Hello Everyone!!! I am newly engaged and am loving wedding planning thus far! We booked our venue immediately, but I figured I can just relax and enjoy being engaged now.....right?!? When should I start actively getting thigs done?? Any ideas, thoughts, advice?!?

XP: Shampoo/conditioner recommendation

lls31 — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 18:16:43 +0000

Posted this on the Wedding Beauty board as well. Over the past 6 months or so, I've been in search of a new shampoo and conditioner. I've tried several different brands and nothing seems to help. I have very thin, damaged hair. I've been using Macadamia Oil products to help with the damage and I've seen improvement. However, that doesn't help the fact that my hair is still very thin. If anyone has similar hair, I would love to hear what you use!

ATLANTA BRIDE COUTURE - Alpharetta, GA

SeaShellsShelly — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:52:58 +0000

Atlanta Bride Couture has the most amazing selection of wedding gowns anywhere in Atlanta, GA !! I've been to all the bridal shops and this one is hands down the most amazing ~ a boutique with class, great prices and the best customer service in the South !! There are over 600 sample gowns in the store to try on, with all most every designer represented. You can even buy a gown off the rack and save super big bucks !! OR, you can order a brand new wedding gown and save super big bucks !! It's a win~win for every bride !! Don't waste your time or money going anywhere esle but Atlanta Bride Couture. They even won THE KNOT 2012 BEST OF WEDDINGS ~ BRIDAL DRESS SHOP !! Read the reviews !! Everyone loves this store !!

Saturday after Thanksgiving a bad idea?

Aria4316 — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 19:14:50 +0000

We are preparing to book a beautful indoor venue on November 24, 2012. It is the only Saturday evening available at the venue (everything is booked up already!) We are a bit concerned because it is the Saturday after Thanksgiving and worry that people may not be able to attend. What are your thoughts on this dates? Pros/cons?

We thought about December 1st but then we thought about the family that would be home for Thanksgiving (college students) would then not be able to attend the following weekend if out of state.

We know travel will be expensive but we have minimal family who would need to travel out of state and we would give them plenty of time to get there tickets in advance.

Any advice would be appreciated, I don't want to spend all this money and put my heart into a wedding where my guests will be unable to attend!

Thank you for your advice :-)

Service Charge vs Gratuity

lls31 — Fri, 02 Dec 2011 20:46:52 +0000

It's Friday afternoon, so naturally I am procrastinating at work. I was adding up costs for our wedding and I noticed that our venue paperwork mentioned an additional 6% PA tax as well as a 21% service charge. We knew this verbiage was in the contract, but it just now occurred to me that the wording says "service charge" rather than "gratuity." This may be a dumb question, but is the service charge the same thing as gratuity?

XP: ideas/tips on cancun?

KayCee85 — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 16:02:26 +0000

The FI and I had wanted to stay away from Mexico for our HM since I had been quite a few times, but now the prospects of buying a new house has become more important to us than spending a whole lot of money on a HM. We were thinking of skipping one, altogether, but I feel like I would regret that if we did. My parents have a time share at Avalon resorts, one in Isla Mujeres, Mexico and two different resorts in Cancun. Their time share would save us TONS and allow us to afford a honeymoon! We went to the resort last yr in Isla Mujeres so we don't really want to go back there so soon. I've been to Cancun when I was 18 or 19 and I loved it, because mostly everyone there seemed college-age like myself. Im wondering if I'll still enjoy Cancun in my late 20's? I know it has a lot to offer people of all ages, j/w if anyone has been recently and how they liked it?

Hello Ladies!

LoisLane007 — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 06:00:08 +0000

I just wanted say hi and to pass on a mini list of things that went on at my wedding, along with some wedding porn to go with it. I was married November 11th, 2011 and hang out on the South Florida Board and November 2011 board if you have any questions. Or you can just reply here or send me PM.

Perfume: Estee Lauder, Sensuous.

Lesson learned: Have extra flowers for corsages. We had one that the florists dropped and it wasn't noticed until she went back to her car to find it and saw it in the driveway....runover.

Centerpiece Ideas: We alternated tables.
Some had these:

(Baby not included)
and these:

(Candles were added to the water once the tables were moved into place)

Sweetheart Table: We were married between the two columns.

Entrance Song: In the Mood by Glenn Miller

The Dances:
The first dance: Fly Me to the Moon by Sinatra

Father-Daughter: Anything You Want by Roy Orbinson

Mother-Son: Then They Do by Trace Adtkins (H is the youngest in his family so it was fitting)

Longest Married Couple Dance: When I Said I Do by Clint Black.
I gave my bouquet away to the longest married couple. The DJ called all married couples to the floor and started eliminating start with "less than 3 hours" We had a couple there married the weekend before us so "Less than a week" Another couple in July "less than 6 months." My BIL got married 10.10.10. so "less than a year and a half" and so on and so forth until the winner at 46 years! Everyone seamed to like it and the winners were very touched by the gesture.

Candy Buffet: There is no such thing as too much candy! A money saving tip: shop after holiday sales. We went after Halloween and ending up saving $300.

Cake Cutting: Grow Old with You by Adam Sandler (Fitting, DH took me to the hospital at 3am in our early dating years because my stomach hurt and I had turned "grey"... an appendectomy was needed)
Do not stiffle your creativity! Create YOUR cake!

Garter and Tossings
Removal: When a Man Loves a Woman by Rod Stewart

Garter Tossing: Bad Boys by Inner Circle (70% of our guest were cops; including DH!)

Boquet Tossing: Someday my Prince Will Come by Whomever sings for Snow White! (I'm a Disney Girl!)

Placement: She's a Lady by Tom Jones (Ironically, my sister and her boyfriend were up for this and their personalities shown through BIG TIME! He's in the chair...)

Wedding Rice Table...it's edible candy hearts....

Goodbye Song: That's What Friend's are For by Dionne Warwick
The DJ had all the guests gather around the dance floor so we could say goodbye to everyone with either a hug or handshake.

Departure Song: Na Na Na, Hey Hey Hey, Kiss Him Goodbye! by Steam
The "rice" was fun for us and our guests. The downside; IT.WAS.EVERYWHERE!!!!!! All over my car (I drive a jeep and he had the top off), inside mine and DH's clothes, I can only imagine what the driveway looked like after!

Hope you ladies got some ideas and enjoyed the pictures. We had a blast!

First Look Advice

lls31 — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 18:20:13 +0000

I meant to post this on our board last week, but I forgot. I asked the November 2011 ladies for input on the whole "first look" thing because they gave some fantastic advice to us earlier. Once again, great advice. They were a huge help - FI and I changed our minds and decided to do a first look based on their responses. Here's a link to my post: http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_november-2011-weddings_first-look-advice

Frustrated with my StDs.

AlmostMrsStrong — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 04:10:14 +0000

They arrived, and were absolutely perfect. Now, a few weeks later, the magnets are starting to curl and not stick all the way. I'm aggravated. I'm going to e-mail them and see if this is normal, and how to fix them (if they can be fixed).

Save the Dates came today!!

jodieanddan2012 — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 00:48:43 +0000

Our save the dates came today! our wedding is in an old ballroom, and is music themed......kinda. What do you guys think?!?!?!?!

It's official...

kantonik — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 14:37:26 +0000

I know we talked about this a few months back when we were all going crazy over losing weight & getting in shape, but just had to share that it's official...I am now a Certified Personal Trainer!! I took my test in December & just got my results & certificate in the mail yesterday!

Now to find a part time training job to start paying off this wedding...

We picked our music!

AlmostMrsStrong — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 07:59:51 +0000

I am so grateful to be surrounded by incredibly talented people. My best friend/MOH agreed to do our wedding topper, another dear friend offered to play the piano for our ceremony as our wedding gift, and yet another friend agreed to help us with music for the ceremony. I'll be hiring a violin player in addition to the piano player, and my composer friend has agreed to write piano/duet music for the following pieces:

Music while guests are being seated OR for wedding party entrance, hacen't decided yet:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BUXsqx0gRI&feature=related

will end up sounding something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPw02cUlrFs

Music for me walking down the aisle:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbOqcR-BORo

will end up sounding something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hWwMZ8yn_I

Yes, it's all video game music because FI and I are big dorks. What I love about these pieces is they just sound like pretty songs for anyone who doesn't know better, and an unexpected surprise for those that do.

The only thing left to decide it a third song to either play while everyone is getting seated, or for the WP to walk down to.

Hair and Makeup artist

nugent89 — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 22:09:56 +0000

When should I start looking for a hair stylest and make up artist. I dont want them to give me the you are way to early im not even going to give you the time of day look or responce. Ive gotten that it it really urks me, Im excited but want to know how much to save and that i have some one when the big day arives.

Friday Morning Laughs

lls31 — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 15:13:14 +0000

I was just browsing the boards because I needed a break from what I'm doing at work and I came across these two posts. There may be more on other boards, but really don't feel like being a stalker.

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_budget-weddings_married-1

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_honeymoon_honeymoon-58

I actually laughed out loud at these. Someone is clearly posting, creating another username, and replying to themselves. Really???

Pinterest...

bootsandgames — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 04:04:26 +0000

Is anyone else addicted to Pinterest? What are some of your favorite ideas you've found?

Center Piece Advice please!

jodieanddan2012 — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 01:54:02 +0000

Ok, so I am not a flower person at all and I really don't care too much about centerpieces and such, but I don't want them to be stupid. Right now the plan for the center pieces is to have 14" mirrors with a 7" very simple vase with moss, a cream/ ivory rose (fake)and an ivory floating candle. Then there will be 4-5 red volives arounf the vase. The venue has very soft light that is a lot like candle light. I was thinking that this will be enough because the mirrors will make it appear bigger and create dimension. But, I am reading stuff online and seeing tv shows that say with a 60" round table the centerpieces are tall, or short and big. The table setting is just the silverware and a napkin with a water glass. I was also thinking about using some sort of classy confetti on the table if need be. Our theme is music, so maybe music notes as confetti. What do you all think. A) will these be too small? B) is confetti stupid?

Mason Jar Center Pieces!

steph8289 — Sun, 01 Jan 2012 22:37:29 +0000

I am looking around for ideas and figured you girls are so good at giving advice or good ideas, or anything that I would post and see what you guys thought!

My wedding is going to be I guess what most people would call "redneck" but formal! My FI and I are HUGE outdoors people and 90% of the year we are wearing our camo, weather we are going out to eat or to church or things like that. So needless to say, our wedding colors are camo and black! (I am very excited) well I was trying to think of center pieces for the longest time, its actually one of the only big details I have left to really figure out! I love the idea of mason jars...

SO after all this my question is, being that we are getting married in fall. Knowing what our colors are (p.s. the flowers are fall colors with orange and cream and such) What do you think would be a good idea to place in the mason jars. If you have any ideas! Please post. Pictures are welcome!!

Thanks Ladies!