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Take the baby, leave the room, and let your H…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:21PM

Dear Prudence, I have a low-stakes in the grand scheme of things, high-stakes in that my blood pressure cannot take it anymore question. I … Read more

12/ 7/23 3:21PM
Monday
Jen4948
12/11/23 4:16PM

Pretty quiet lately. Ok, pity party of one time. I am getting really annoyed with my dad. He is developing a habit of making plans with me… Read more

12/11/23 4:16PM
Abby should not be invited.
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:17PM

Dear Prudence, Do I need to invite 13-year-old cousin with special needs to my no-kids wedding? My fiancé and I are in the early stages o… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:17PM
Bea was rude, but you weren't the greatest ho…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:10PM

Dear Prudence, So my brother brought his new girlfriend “Bea” to Thanksgiving. For context, Bea was sitting around and playing on her p… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:10PM
Wednesday
Casadena
12/ 6/23 2:41PM

First day in our new office. Need to unpack some things and get settled. I actually like the setup, it feels fairly private even for small c… Read more

12/ 6/23 2:41PM
SELLING DEPOSIT
knottiecf750291e74d508f
12/10/23 6:06PM

My wedding was scheduled for September 14, 2024 but we couldn't go ahead with our event and would like to sell our credit Venue: Belcroft E… Read more

12/10/23 6:06PM
Help! Need fine penmanship
knottie74db16d4cb7bdbd7
12/10/23 1:28PM

Hey! I am looking for a reasonably priced calligrapher who can do something like this attached. Open to fancier calligraphy but do love thi… Read more

12/10/23 1:28PM
Dresses similar to "Alexandra" by M…
elliegtaylor
12/ 8/23 10:45PM

Does anyone have any recommendations for dresses similar to the "Alexandra" by Monique Lhuillier or more affordable alternatives t… Read more

12/ 8/23 10:45PM
I mean you can, but is it ethical?
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:04PM

Dear Prudence, A friend who vacations often discovered free wheelchair rides throughout the airport, making her first in line from ticket c… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:04PM
Friyay! Friyay!
CharmedPam
12/ 8/23 1:46PM

Hallelujah! The ointment prescribed to me worked wonders overnight! I’m just slightly pink now and my skin looks great under it all. I bas… Read more

12/ 8/23 1:46PM
Nope, say nothing. It's not for you to teach…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:49PM

Dear Prudence, My son (age 13) has a best friend who seldom, if ever, says, “Thank you.” It bothers me because I have tried to stress t… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:49PM
You need to talk to Ken.
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:40PM

Dear Prudence, Earlier this year, I dated someone I’ll call “Ken” for a few months. It got pretty intense pretty quickly, and then th… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:40PM
Don't move and accept it may not work out wit…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:32PM

Dear Prudence, I paid off my town house after my husband passed away. It has two bedrooms and the location is amazing given the public tran… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:32PM
Head to the bathroom without making a scene.
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:12PM

Dear Prudence, I recently got my first full-time job and am trying to figure out how to manage my periods at work. I don’t want to give i… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:12PM
Say, "nice to see you" and keep it …
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:48PM

Dear Prudence,   Three years back, some college friends introduced me to “Paige” and “Ryan” during their visit. We initially got al… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:48PM
Prudie Day
ei34
12/ 7/23 2:08PM

How's everyone?  I'm kind of just slogging through.   Read more

12/ 7/23 2:08PM
Your mom is overreacting, but there's nothing…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:08PM

Dear Prudence, I’m 18 and for the past few months have been in a somewhat friendship, somewhat romantic relationship with a 21-year-old (… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:08PM
You don't want to go because you can't read m…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:53PM

Dear Prudence, Earlier this year, I got into a heated argument with a well-liked person in my family. I don’t think the argument was unju… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:53PM
This isn't a travel problem, it's worldview i…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:03PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend is a very small, pretty, androgynous-looking guy. Even as a kid in a school uniform and a crew cut, people some… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:03PM
So your husband just expects you to accept th…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:39PM

Dear Prudence, I telecommute, which is a blessing because my husband’s career requires a lot of moving around. The problem is right now w… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:39PM
Encourage Grace to handle the stress of her m…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:51PM

Dear Prudence, One of my best friends of over a decade, “Grace, ” has long struggled with very specific mental health issues. I’m not… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:51PM
Are you in therapy?
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:41PM

Dear Prudence, What’s the polite, adult way to react when people deeply judge something they don’t know you are also going through? I t… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:41PM
You can't control what happens.
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:13PM

Dear Prudence, About a year ago, I asked my wife for a divorce. We got married about a decade ago when same-sex marriage became legal in a … Read more

12/ 7/23 3:13PM
Forget your sister, it's time to kiss your la…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:43PM

Dear Prudence, I live in an apartment with very thin walls and try my hardest to be a good neighbor since the rent is low here and most of … Read more

12/ 7/23 2:43PM
Stop hanging out with them.
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 2:44PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend (F29) has been dating her boyfriend (M33) for over two years. Their relationship goes back further. She’s b… Read more

12/ 7/23 2:44PM
You want to have your cake and eat it too...t…
mrsconn23
12/ 7/23 3:22PM

Dear Prudence, I ghosted an in-law who has rubbed a lot of the family the wrong way, for a long time. They mean well and are caring and sma… Read more

12/ 7/23 3:22PM
Tuesday
Casadena
12/ 5/23 3:45PM

Woke up to snow today! Not a lot and it's not cold enough to stick for long, but it's nice to look at while i'm working! What's up with ever… Read more

12/ 5/23 3:45PM
question for groomsmen suits
knottiee238974bfbb12035
12/ 5/23 9:21PM

Hi to all! My fiancée and I are currently in the early planning stages of our wedding. We've been in the wedding party a few times and one… Read more

12/ 5/23 9:21PM
I put more money for my engagement ring behin…
knottie63e906cac93c583c
12/ 5/23 1:24AM

We bought the ring together, while it is being made, I added more money from my pocket to get a bigger stone. It’s the same ring just with… Read more

12/ 5/23 1:24AM

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FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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