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Friday! Finally
CharmedPam
11/14/25 3:46PM

Hope everyone has a nice smooth Friday!I booked another cruise yesterday. My friends and I did a 5 nighter on virgin voyages because we hear… Read more

11/14/25 3:46PM
eye rolling so hard here
Casadena
11/13/25 6:25PM

Dear Prudence, There is a child at my son’s school (he’s in first grade) who I see waiting to be picked up when I come to get my son af… Read more

11/13/25 6:25PM
Reception invites without ceremony invites
knottie6311f553d6adafac
11/12/25 12:19AM

We are having our ceremony at a place that is very special to us but it only allows for 50 guests.  For our reception we have a large venue… Read more

11/12/25 12:19AM
"oh, I'm not free that night, etc etc&qu…
Casadena
11/13/25 6:18PM

Dear Prudence, I’m facing a tricky situation with my friend, “Phoebe,” that I would really like some advice on how to handle. Phoebe … Read more

11/13/25 6:18PM
Therapy?
Casadena
11/13/25 6:24PM

Dear Prudence, I’m 26 and I’m terrified to drive. I never got my license, and when I was initially planning to get it, the pandemic hap… Read more

11/13/25 6:24PM
Just....ask her to stop?
Casadena
11/13/25 6:20PM

Dear Prudence, I work 12-hour night shifts. We tend to work in relatively small teams of three to six people per “shift,” and for the m… Read more

11/13/25 6:20PM
Sounds like you just hate your ILs
Casadena
11/13/25 6:21PM

Dear Prudence, Every year, I dread Thanksgiving because my wife always lets her mother, “Anisa,” dictate what will be served and how to… Read more

11/13/25 6:21PM
You split fairly, not equally
Casadena
11/13/25 6:26PM

Dear Prudence,  I make four times as much money as my boyfriend. We want to move in together and have agreed to split expenses fifty-fifty… Read more

11/13/25 6:26PM
Your support will be invaluable when this cra…
Casadena
11/13/25 5:49PM

Dear Prudence, My good friend is about to get married, and I think she is making a huge mistake. She is young, beautiful and successful, an… Read more

11/13/25 5:49PM
Therapy would help
Casadena
11/13/25 6:21PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a 19-year-old trans man. My mom and stepdad, who have been in my life since I was 7, have always been totally loving a… Read more

11/13/25 6:21PM
Reeeeally missing important info
Casadena
11/13/25 6:28PM

Dear Care and Feeding, Is it unreasonable and cruel that my son and his wife won’t let us see our grandkids unless we drive 120 miles and… Read more

11/13/25 6:28PM
Just ask him to use the trash can
Casadena
11/13/25 6:16PM

Dear Prudence, ​​I share an office with my husband and maybe once or twice a week, he clips his fingernails with the clippers while sit… Read more

11/13/25 6:16PM
Prudie Day
ei34
11/13/25 4:14PM

How goes it?  Wishing all a smooth day! Read more

11/13/25 4:14PM
Don't have an answer here
Casadena
11/13/25 6:27PM

Dear Care and Feeding, I divorced my kids’ dad two years ago for the most selfish reason possible: I wanted to do less of the parenting f… Read more

11/13/25 6:27PM
The thought was nice
Casadena
11/13/25 5:47PM

Dear Prudence, My mother-in-law “Pam” fancies herself a talented painter. She isn’t. Like, Not At All. That didn’t stop her from g… Read more

11/13/25 5:47PM
Get good at saying no, but stay a safe place …
Casadena
11/13/25 6:23PM

Dear Prudence, I am struggling to maintain sympathy for the father and grandmother of my 13-year-old daughter’s best friend, “Kayla.”… Read more

11/13/25 6:23PM
Old Knot Funny
VarunaTT
11/12/25 9:57PM

So way back when I started on The Knut, you could do the these elaborate bios with pictures.  There were trolls out there who make fake bio… Read more

11/12/25 9:57PM
Hump Day!
CharmedPam
11/12/25 2:55PM

Anyone in the Northern hemisphere see the northern lights last night? (8:30 - 9:30 pmish). I got a group text to go and see but you can only… Read more

11/12/25 2:55PM
Need advice on my photographer
knottiec5eee2818b9dd754
11/12/25 1:15AM

So I want to ask advice to on what to do, I got married this summer and on my contract it stated what day I’d be receiving my photos when … Read more

11/12/25 1:15AM
Snowy Tuesday
ei34
11/11/25 5:07PM

Stay warm all! Happy Veterans Day to all those celebrating a loved one (like my dad, a Navy vet), aka, some of those who actually make Amer… Read more

11/11/25 5:07PM
Misty Monday
ei34
11/10/25 4:39PM

How was everyone's weekend? Read more

11/10/25 4:39PM
Day of Coordinators?
knottie85bc98bcd78a4359
11/10/25 6:53PM

Looking for South Asian specialized day of coordinators / month of coordinators for my Hindu - Western fusion wedding. Please drop recommend… Read more

11/10/25 6:53PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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