Hi everyone just hoping for a little advice
My fiancé and I are planning a destination wedding in Jamaica. My family lives on the other side of the country and would have had to travel anyway so we figured destination was a good way to go. Anyway it turns out that many of my finances extended family can't make it ( no surprise to us) and we are fine with that as we only wanted a very small and personal wedding.
However my FMIL wants to host a at home celebration upon our return from Jamaica so that all of her extended family and friends can attend. My fiancé and I originally agreed thinking she was planning a small casual BBQ party type thing. Anyway it seems she is now planning more of a reception and wants to rent a hall, have a meal catered, etc. my fiancé and I both feel this is overboard and unnecessary. But on the other hand he is her only son and she is very excited about him getting married and wants to be able to celebrate with her family and will be footing the bill. I personally don't want this but I feel so bad to tell her no. Any suggestions?