Getting married a second time and not having a bridal shower is upsetting me.
We didn't have pre-wedding festivities the last go round with our respective ceremonies so this time we wanted to have some. The first time we initially planned to the ceremony we had to postpone for good reason. However we scheduled for the ceremony and all is well between us. So I went to my BFF (mind you ~ I have planned 3 of her baby showers and she didn't plan any pre-wedding festivities the first time I was married either) and explained what I wanted and needed her to do and she seemed on board. Now she is hella busy and can't fit me in before my wedding date. I am disappointed that I am not having a shower; my BF acknowledged that she knew how important it was too me. I do not have any family who can do this for me. I refuse to throw my own because I think it is tacky. My fiance is forgoing his bachelor party which is okay, I guess. But I am pissed my closest friends can't figure out a day and time to help me celebrate this occasion...as it stands, this is forever and we won't have another opportunity like this before the big day. Oh well... I am just trying to wrap my mind around the feelings I have and look beyond this situation towards my marriage and hopefully not let this damage my relationship with friends.